"monthly cylce" and bf problems

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Registered: 03-23-2005
"monthly cylce" and bf problems
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Thu, 12-08-2005 - 11:51am

hi, when i get my monthly cycle, my bf thinks
that is should initiate and orally satisfy him
1 or 2 x during the week that i have my period.

He says that God made women to have periods
and MEN SHOULD NOT SUFFER CUZ OF THIS.

Maybe his attitude on this bothers me more than
anything, but i have never had a bf in the past
who had this kind of attitude...some of my
past bf's could wait till my period is over, but
this now bf makes a big to do about it.

We both decided NOT to have regular sex during
this time of the month, but he expects me
to orally gratify him every time i get my
period.

What do other couples do when the gal gets
her monthly????

any advice would be great!!!
thanks!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 12-08-2005 - 6:45pm

I almost choked


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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2005
Thu, 12-08-2005 - 6:54pm
I have to agree with the other posters. Your BF is either very immature or very egotistical...mabe both! It's one thing if you're in the frame of mind to want to offer oral action for various reasons...less mess during heavy periods...don't feel your best, etc...OR you actually enjoy giving oral and find the experience to be a turn on in itself! I know I do! ...It's entirely different if you are being expected to service him because he finds your periods are an inconvenience. Personally.I feel periods are more an inconvenience to the gal than the guy any day!
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-09-2005
Fri, 12-09-2005 - 8:05am
I can't believe he would tell you that you have a duty to serve him while your suffering! That makes about as much sense as the idea that the reason we bleed every month is due to Eve taking an apple from a snake. Ask him what he intends to do for you.
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Registered: 03-23-2005
Fri, 12-09-2005 - 9:00am

(((( thank you everyone)))) for your wonderful insight and
input.

And yes, i would be more enthused to give oral to my
bf as long as i know its not something i have to do,
its much better when i WANT to do it.

I told him this, and NOW of course he is fine with
it, and his attitude has changed alot.

I do have choices & glad for all your responses.

(((( Cami)))))

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2005
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 1:30am
When I have my period, I usually do things for my boyfriend, not because I feel obligated to, but because I want to. If I don't feel like it, then he doesn't mind waiting until my period is gone to 'have fun' together. Your boyfriend's attitude is not one that would really make me feel appreciated. Also, I could be wrong, but I don't think God gave women periods so that they could sexually satisfy their men for a week every month. All this time I thought it was for procreation!

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