Most appealing thing about a penis

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2003
Most appealing thing about a penis
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Sat, 07-31-2004 - 1:19pm

Most appealing thing about a penis



  • length
  • girth
  • shape
  • veins
  • smooth
  • curve
  • shape of glans
  • shaved/trimmed
  • circumsized
  • uncircumcized


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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2004
Wed, 08-11-2004 - 1:25pm
The most appealing thing about my bf's penis is when it is slippery wet and I rub it against my clit.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2004
Wed, 08-11-2004 - 2:41pm
I would have voted girth, but that's a strong preference. Circumcised - a MUST for me!
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2003
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 1:02am
I see being circumcized is one vote below girth. Why is being circumcized so appealing? Or is it that being uncircumsized is so unappealing? Honestly, is it the smell or the smegma??

I'm circumcized, but I've been having a small running discussion with my wife as to whether or not to get one for our son, if and when we have one. Oddly enough I've been leaning more on leaving him intact, and my wife seems to really strongly prefer him cut.

Inquiring minds want to know.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-30-2004
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 10:34am
Here is a humble opinion from someone who is unsnipped: Don't do it! Four reasons: it is a normal structure so the onus is on the pro-choppers to show the beniftis of removal. 2) Of course it hurts. Even if they use anaesthetic, which I understand they often don't, it will hurt afterwards. Its cauterized for crying out loud! Ouch!. Why would you do that to your kid? 3) I have a foreskin, and I'm rather fond of it, it's VERY sensitive and I would miss it if it was gone. 4) It's a lot easier to take it off later than to put it back on, and it would never be the same anyways.

As to women's preferences: The States have a had a lot more circumcision than the rest of the western world (except Israel) as far as I know. It's a religious thing. So AMERICAN women, and to some extend Canadian women too, are more likely to prefer it because it is a common part of their culture. If you were to poll women in China, or Japan, or Europe, or Russia, you would get a very different set of results. Besides, it's falling out of favour. You don't want the chick he fools around with in the back of his space cruiser when he's 16 to think he's a freak do you? jk.

-phat

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 1:05pm
You're not being judged, LOL, but I'm curious, why would circumsized be a "must" for ya? Would you not be with an uncircumsized gentleman?

Again, no right or wrong, just hoping to learn a different point of view. Better than someone guessing for you, right? LOL!!

;)

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Mr. Para

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 1:40pm
i don't care either way. but a couple of my friends who prefer circ'd had issues with their uncirc'd man keeping his unit clean. also one accidentally ripped the foreskin during oral.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 2:17pm
Hi sugar! How's it goin? :)

So when you say they had issues with the unit not being clean, would there not be an issue with any unclean unit anyway? I'm pretty certain I'm confused, LOL, can ya help me out here? ;)

Glad that damage to the foreskin is so rare, LOL! Did that couple contemplate circumcision for reason?...if they contemplated it at all that is.

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Mr. Para

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2003
Wed, 08-18-2004 - 9:14am
Regarding countries and such, I'm from the Philippines where it's still unthinkable to remain intact. I've also heard from Filipinas how much they don't like uncut guys because, as you mentioned, they're more used to looking at cut penises.

Just to be clear, I'll never base my decision (on circumsizing my future son) based on women's preferences.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2004
Wed, 08-18-2004 - 1:53pm
It seems like people get personal when talking about their penis. My $0.02 is an uncut member appears feminine. The great penis head is all hidden. Shouldn't a man have it all hanging out?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-30-2004
Wed, 08-18-2004 - 2:22pm
I agree that people get personal when talking about their penises. As they should, since it is a part of a male's person. Congratulations on making a 'personal topic' even more so, by calling a man's equipment "feminine". I have to admit I don't agree though, since foreskin is not one of those feminine qualities that I personally look for in a woman. You must have some pretty high standards of masculinity, if you think that most men in the world have feminine looking genitals. lol, its a good thing I don't date many American girls, or I might have lopped it off myself by now, just to look manly.

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