Most neglected part of male body.

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Most neglected part of male body.
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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 11:08am

Over the years, I've had intercourse with ten women, and heavy make-out sessions with others. Almost none of them have paid much attention to my testicles. My testicles are very sensitive to touch, oral, etc., but it's almost like they don't exist. All of my partners have paid attention to my penis. What is it about testicles that leads to them being almost ignored? A soft touch can drive me wild! In fact, I used to tell my ex-wife to fondle my testicles as I approached orgasm, and it made my orgasm so much better.

Why, ladies, is such a major part of my male body so neglected?

Greg

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sun, 06-10-2007 - 11:44am

I can't speak for other women but Dh's boys are never neglected.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 06-10-2007 - 11:50am

Hi Greg,

I can't say that I have always "ignored" a mans testicles, however, my DH is not particularly fond of having his testicles indulged. He just feels that stimulation of his testicles has never been particularly enjoyable, not necessarily "unenjoyable", but of no significant pleasure.

As often said here, a large part of sex has to do with the brain. I have been encouraging DH to relax while I explore, and I do believe he is starting to see an appreciation for having his testicles receive attention. I certainly have had past lovers that have enjoyed this sort of stimulation.



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Registered: 12-12-2006
Sun, 06-10-2007 - 1:03pm

It's probably more "ignorance" than anything else. Particularly in younger women, with whom you had most of your early experience. They just don't know, or in some cases, they've heard stories about how "sensitive" they are, and they're afraid of hurting them.

Men, just like women, have to ask for what they want.....if they're not getting it.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Sun, 06-10-2007 - 1:21pm

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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 4:50pm
When I read the title of your post I assumed that you were referring to the penis. None of the women I was with ever paid any attention to my penis. The less they had to do with it the better, it seemed to me. You do have a point, though. If a woman isn't paying any attention to a man's penis, she surely isn't going to pay any attention to his balls, is she? LOL
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Registered: 02-28-2006
Sun, 06-10-2007 - 6:24pm
DW most assuredly doesn't ignore mine. :o)

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Registered: 10-30-2003
Sun, 06-10-2007 - 7:33pm

Two of my first girlfriends and I discussed this.

One of them was fairly sure she had hurt one of her earlier boyfriends when giving him a very enthusiastic and vigirous hand job. She had wanted to do a good job. She was afraid to touch the boys at all. The other one had heard so much about how sensitive the boys are that she was also almost afraid to touch them. Neither one of these women had brothers.

Women that grew up with brothers tend to know a little more about how men are in a very literal sense. They have heard them talk and overheard discussions and talked with them. They have attended sporting events and maybe even been coached by their brothers about the the fact that men have "the boys" and the opportunities that may present to them for defensive purposes. They have seen them horse around. They have know when something went wrong and when it didn't. Sometimes they can talk to them easier too.

That doesn't mean the ladies that don't have a brother can't learn about it and don't want to. They may be even more intrigued with more toys to play with once they learn. Over time both of the young women mentioned in the first paragraph developed quite an affection for playing with "the boys" along with some amusement of it.

The key point is this stuff has to be learned somehow. One very simple way is for all parties to talk to each other.

I learned a long time ago I can't read anyone's mind and most people can't read mine. Certainly not when you first meet them. The ladies will have some idea what to do but you need to find some way to communicate with them what you want.

The ladies also need to find some way to let you know what they need and or want.

I would also bet we could get slammed by women telling us what their young boyfriends did or didn't do when they first started exploring their female body. This is a learning process for everyone.

Good luck

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Registered: 11-04-1999
Sun, 06-10-2007 - 8:45pm

I did communicate my desires to my ex-wife. On occasion I would be thrusting but not reaching orgasm, and I would ask her to fondle or lightly brush my testicles with her finger tips. This would always be the final thing needed for me to orgasm.

Greg

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Registered: 12-22-2005
Sun, 06-10-2007 - 9:36pm

Greg:


Just repeating/agreeing with others have said:

 

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Registered: 03-28-2005
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 7:58am
I definitely don't ignore my guys testicles, just cupping my hands around them and gently movin them seems to do the trick, turns me on seeing, hearing and feeling his reaction.. however hearing from friends and my own past experiences..in relation to sucking, licking etc if the testicles are somewhat hairy or there is a lot of hair around there, it can be off putting..hair in your mouth and such...

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