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| Tue, 02-21-2006 - 9:50am |
The most significant factor of truly fulfilling sex is...
- How long it lasts.
- The intimacy, regardless physical satisfaction.
- The high from intensely pleasing the partner, regardless of self.
- Perfection both physically and intimately, must be both.
- Nothing, cause it's ultimately impossible.
- Having an orgasm, no matter who or how.
- How often I can have it.
- Fulfilling sexual fantasies.
- A preference that varies from time to time.
You will be able to change your vote.

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10-4, brad!
Thats how I view it too. I didn't vote for that one, but I completely understand your point. Some people can enjoy without the partner enjoying as well. Some can enjoy without the partner at all.
I'm not one of those either.
Tons of ways to go on this though. Curious to see the poll results over time...very curious.
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I did not vote, because I did not see an option that represented my view.
For me, the most fulfilling sex is that which brings about the deepest spiritual connection.
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I voted "Perfection both physically and intimately, must be both".
Achieving great intimacy is nice, having physically great sex is fine too. But get the two of them sync'd and peaking and you have truly mind-blowing sex.
>>For me, the most fulfilling sex is that which brings about the deepest spiritual connection.<<
Couldn't that be classed as "intimacy"?
You're not getting out of answering the question lightly, you know! ;-)
I suppose it could be. Intimacy is different for everyone, and I was attempting to differentiate between intimacy and spirituality in that for me,
But I personally think the connection between intimacy and spirituality is very close. I can't have intimacy with someone unless I feel connected with them on a higher level -- as opposed just fitting well together physically. I haven't felt true intimacy with very many men. I think it took me until I was 41 to figure that out.
p.s cute picture!
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