The most significant factor of truly ...

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The most significant factor of truly ...
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Tue, 02-21-2006 - 9:50am

The most significant factor of truly fulfilling sex is...



  • How long it lasts.
  • The intimacy, regardless physical satisfaction.
  • The high from intensely pleasing the partner, regardless of self.
  • Perfection both physically and intimately, must be both.
  • Nothing, cause it's ultimately impossible.
  • Having an orgasm, no matter who or how.
  • How often I can have it.
  • Fulfilling sexual fantasies.
  • A preference that varies from time to time.


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Registered: 01-05-2006
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 12:56am

WHat is the deep spiritual connection -or if you want to answer this one privatly you can send it to my email address?

JudithS

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 2:06pm
judith, for some people, when they make love it isnt just to bodies fulfilling a physical need, it is two souls who deeply love each other being as close and intimate as two people can be... and for some of those people, they never feel closer than when they make love...something they only share with one another.
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Registered: 05-09-2006
Sat, 06-10-2006 - 7:28pm
I voted "A preference that varies from time to time." What a complex question! If I'm in love with him, then the intimacy is what's most important. But at the same time, I believe orgasms are also very important for both people. I've been in relationships before where I loved my boyfriend and enjoyed our lovemaking, but would be continually disappointed when he would have an orgasm, but would not take the time to satisfy me. Maybe that sounds selfish of me, but if I care enough to do whatever it takes to give my boyfriend the "ultimate pleasure," then I would hope he would care enough to take a little more time to please me as well. One-sided relationships don't last forever with me. But I've also had relationships with some really cute guys that I knew wouldn't last, and you really couldn't call it love (maybe relationships of sexual attraction would be more fitting), where intimacy was replaced by eroticism and it was all about animal sex!! In those relationships, important factors could be how long it lasts, intensely pleasing the partner, having an orgasm, no matter who or how, how often, and fulfilling fantasies. ;)

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