If you do decide to stay the night, you could shower before bed (including removing the make up). He can join you, or you can do this on your own. I doubt your mild scars will bother him at all, but if you are that unsure, you could leave the lights off or use dim lighting.
Most likely you're worrying about nothing here -- he's not looking to judge you without make up. Here's a post with a link you might want to review:
If you start staying the night, it could complicate things, but if you are only seeing him about four times a year, I don't see it as an issue.
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I don't see where it makes any difference if he's your b/f or a FWB.
If you do decide to stay the night, you could shower before bed (including removing the make up). He can join you, or you can do this on your own. I doubt your mild scars will bother him at all, but if you are that unsure, you could leave the lights off or use dim lighting.
Most likely you're worrying about nothing here -- he's not looking to judge you without make up. Here's a post with a link you might want to review:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlletstalkab&msg=21506.1
There are some great tips in the article on ways to see yourself as others do.
Help me Have **1,000** Nights of Great Sex!
Gosh, FWB or not, sleeping together in the same bed is the best thing ever.