mostly 4 guys (& girls)-staying the nite

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
mostly 4 guys (& girls)-staying the nite
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Fri, 01-18-2008 - 10:08pm

I have never spent the

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2002
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 10:20pm

If you start staying the night, it could complicate things, but if you are only seeing him about four times a year, I don't see it as an issue.

 


 


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 10:25pm

I just think

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2002
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 10:35pm
When he is demanding like that and tells you to get a brazilian or he won't be with you, why would you even care what he thinks about how you look?

 


 


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
Sat, 01-19-2008 - 1:13am

I don't see where it makes any difference if he's your b/f or a FWB.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 01-19-2008 - 8:34am

If you do decide to stay the night, you could shower before bed (including removing the make up). He can join you, or you can do this on your own. I doubt your mild scars will bother him at all, but if you are that unsure, you could leave the lights off or use dim lighting.

Most likely you're worrying about nothing here -- he's not looking to judge you without make up. Here's a post with a link you might want to review:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlletstalkab&msg=21506.1

There are some great tips in the article on ways to see yourself as others do.





iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
Sat, 01-19-2008 - 3:32pm
thanks for your replies, but about the mascara:
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
Sun, 01-20-2008 - 1:25am
What does mascara have to do with wrinkles or crows feet?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2007
Mon, 01-21-2008 - 11:55am

Gosh, FWB or not, sleeping together in the same bed is the best thing ever.