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Multiple Orgasm
| Wed, 11-24-2004 - 3:12pm |
Hello everyone! I have a quick question for anyone who will kind enough to reply. The other night I was having sex with my boyfriend and typically I can have several orgasms in one session, but the other night he came twice in the same session. Now my question is, because I've never had a man do this before, is this something that happens with a lot of men? I guess I have another question, how can I get it to happen again? I think it's a good thing that happened, right?

For a man, the time between orgasms is called the man's "refractory time". This time can vary from as soon as 10 to 15 minutes to 8 or 10 hours and anywhere in between. It also depends on the age of the man. Naturally, young, virile men should be able to have another orgasm in less time than an older man. it would also vary according to how "worked up" the man is.
When I was younger, I often was able to enjoy a second orgasm within 20 minutes or a little less after the first. I am now 74, but I was fortunate to have a second orgasm with my wife about a week ago about 25 minutes after the first. After that, I was not ready for action again for a few days.
A lot of men talk about being able to have more than one orgasm in a session, even after ejaculating, and it must be true, but it's also pretty rare. I know that even when I was younger, I couldn't do it.
The real way for men to have multiple orgasms is as zoebird yogini suggested (though he was a little unclear) - that is, without ejaculating. And his advice about the two books:
"there's a great book called The MultiOrgasmic Man and a sequel called The MultiOrgasmic Couple that will give lots of information and techniques." is good. These books are by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams. The techniques get a bit complex, but if you just do the basics for controling ejaculations , you can have several orgasms. I don't all the time, but I frequently can have two or three and sometimes even four. It also means that I can last for as long as my wife and I wish and she has a number of orgasms every time we have intercourse.
taoist