Muttley and Para, Cul-de-sac report

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Muttley and Para, Cul-de-sac report
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Sun, 08-15-2004 - 1:53pm
First off, thanks for the info. And when I say thank you, I mean THANK YOU!!!!!! ROFL. Holy Moses that felt good lol. I did find I had to modify the suggested position a bit, by tilting my pelvis a bit more. I hadn't thought to suck in my stomach a bit like the article suggested, but it did help. DH and I have used that position before, but not quite in the same way. It felt good before, but it must have been close to the spot but not on it. It felt like pressure was being put on my clit from behind. He kept sliding over my cervix on accident, which was uncomfortable at first but felt good as I got closer to orgasm. His angle seemed important too, if he was too far forward he tended to miss the spot. I guess I will be experimenting with this MUCH more in the future lol. Not sure I answered all your questions, but feel free to ask away.

Leticia

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 3:38pm
HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE congratulations!! RAOFL!!! When Mrs. Para & I actually achieve these type of oragsms, THATS IT!, don't bother to catch us the next day until God puts our raptured spirits back in our weakened bodies...LOL!!! ;D

I noticed you mentioned the same thing she mentioned a lot, along with what others have reported as well: You really have to angle yourselves just right to avoid that "discomfort" zone, and then when you're sooo aroused, you can actually feel pleasure even from that zone as well, if its done JUST right of course. She's said ouch more than once, but WOW does it not stop her and us together from wanting it more anyway when she's that aroused eventually.

Now, with enough success at such a feeling, do you now see why clitoral stimulation isn't always a factor for some of us each and every single time? LOL!

Hmmm...where the heck is she now anyway? Sigh...

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 12:22am
!!!EXCELLENT!!!

Seeing as how my view is from a guy's point of view, could you further describe the physical trajectory we're trying to find the right words for?

Thanks in advance,

Muttley

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Registered: 02-14-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 9:08am
Para,

Could you post the technique again? I must have missed the first post describing how to find and touch the Cul-de-sac with the penis.

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 10:58am
Hi rrick!

Thanks for the credit, but I believe it was Leticia and muttley who described them better. From my & Mrs. Para's personal experience, the only thing that has worked for us, , was for HER to be in control of our intercourse.

SHE controls the rythm and the angles and the depth and everything. She controls how much more aroused she becomes and then controls the rythm and depth of thrusting. We're only able to accomplish such pleasure . I'll admit that it certainly feels like its more often lately, thand God for that!! LOL!!! ;D

I don't want to link here to a webpage that sells a book or anything for that matter, but I'd like to share with you part of a quote from author Barbara Keesling that was pretty successful at describing what the rest of us just simply couldn't describe:

>>>The key to super sexual orgasm lies within a small passage of the vaginal canal, just beyond the cervix, known as the cul-de-sac. As is so often the case with labels, the name of this passage belies the truth, for this cul-de-sac is no dead end. To the contrary, this small section of the vaginal canal is so extraordinarily rich in sensitive nerve endings that the slightest contact with a man's penis or sex toy can trigger an instantaneous orgasm so powerful, so shiveringly all-consuming, and so absolutely delicious that it practically defies description (though the phrase "lightning bolt" does come to mind!).

This cul-de-sac passage is the gateway to total erotic pleasure. And the "cul-de-sac response" that is triggered during penetration is the secret that is about to change your life. Sounds simple, doesn't it? It is simple. Beautifully simple. But here's the problem: While every woman has a cul-de-sac, not every woman can make this super-charged part of the vaginal canal "available" during intercourse. For most women, the weight and positioning of the uterus tend to compress the vaginal canal at the entrance to the cul-de-sac passage, creating a daunting vaginal roadblock. This most unwelcome obstruction tends to make the special cul-de-sac passage a closed road, inaccessible to penetration by the penis during intercourse. The penis (or dildo) may reach, but it cannot enter, and as a result, the most potentially gratifying erotic experience any woman could imagine remains just out of reach. Out of reach, that is, until now.<<<

Here's some more interesting info on it:

http://www.askman.com/sex/sextip/sextip7.html

The "natural" blocking of the cul-de-sac passage, as well as not having a partner long enough, are likely the culprits that prevent many women from experiencing these and also convinces them that they simply are not capable of such an experience--even to the point of that such an area in their bodies exists with all of those pleasure enriched sensitive nerves that are just begging to be stimulated. This would be a fantastic topic for Dr. Ruth to comment on.

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 1:10pm
>>could you further describe the physical trajectory we're trying to find the right words for?<<

You mean, what spot am I aiming for? If I am on my back, I would say it is just above the cervix. I can't say exaclt where, as the feeling inside is not very precise :o(

Leticia

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 1:13pm
Here is a link to Muttley's message to me: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlletstalkab&msg=15042.20

The position suggested I had to modify a bit, if you read post in this current thread. Also, my perineum and the lower part of my labia are very sensitive. So pulling my knees up to my chest with my legs spread wide allowed us to reach it as well but gave me the added bonus of stimulating my labia and perineum at the same time. Yowza! LOL. And it's nice to see DH moving in and out of me.

Leticia

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Registered: 02-14-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 6:52pm
Para,

Thanks for the thorough answer. I went back and read all the earlier threads on this topic. My DF and I are able to hit this spot frequently but did not know what it was called. She loves it!!! I think the reason some couples are able to be successful easier is due to the physical makeup of the lady. My lady has what the gyno calls a tipped uterus. This makes it easy to completely encircle her cervix both digitally and with my penis. That may be why some ladies find this impossible and others find it easy.

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 9:53pm
Ok, that's exactly what I wanted to know.

Thanks!

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 12:10am
Actually, I HAVE heard of that "tipped uterus" condition and how it affects deeper vaginal orgasm. Good point. That is worth looking up some more too.

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Registered: 06-23-2004
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 1:31pm
Wow...I don't know how pleased my SO would be about me talking graphically about our sex life to another man...

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