Mutual Masturbation, who's doing it? ...

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Mutual Masturbation, who's doing it? ...
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Tue, 09-04-2007 - 10:45am

Mutual Masturbation, who's doing it? Tell us who initiates it?



  • We do fairly often. Who initiates?
  • We do sometimes. Who initiates?
  • We have rarely. Who initiates?
  • We never have.
  • Other, please explain.


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Registered: 09-03-2007
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 11:04am
Whoever feels like. o particular order. But we both love it.
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 1:19pm

I was torn between "fairly" often and "sometimes". Since we resort to mutual MB'tion 1-2 times during my period each month I just wasn't sure but I selected "sometimes".

I ( the wife )initiated this in our relationship during it's early stages because it was the only way I was going to orgasm for 1 thing, and it was the only way to instruct DH on how and where I like being touched ( he didn't like it either, he said it made him feel like a failure. ) Once he learned what to do for me, it wasn't necessary to MB myself to orgasm during LM'ing sessions anymore.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 6:37pm
I voted *often*.
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Wed, 09-05-2007 - 6:02am
We usually begin our sex with mutual masturbation. We watch a sex DVD while we masturbate together. We each lube up and I will use my hand or a toy. She will begin with her fingers and then use a dildo or another vibrator. I love to watch her realistic dildo go in and out of her vagina. One of our favorite activities is for her to masturbate using her fingers and just before she is ready to cum I will go down on her until she cums and then as I put my penis in her we kiss deeply sharing juices. She will cum again when I cum. Usually mutual masturnation is just foreplay and we cum from either oral or from IC; however, sometimes we cum from masturbation. She loves for me to cum on her boobs.
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Registered: 09-05-2007
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 7:40am
My husband doesn't like it,is that weird? I love it! How can I get him to enjoy it more?
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 8:07am
With ex Dw we did it alot and it was great
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 12:53pm

Welcome to the board shop4ever.



It's actually my goal to masturbate in front of/for DH this month! (You can set a goal to by visiting the September Roll Call thread.) I'm not sure why your hubby won't do it with you, but I know for me, it's just something I have always kept more private. While I'm totally comfortable with hubby, and we talk about masturbation, I've just never really thought about doing it in front of him. Of course, visiting these boards, lots of new things I didn't think of have come up! Although this is on DHs wish list (for me to do), I've noticed that he's not too open about doing it in front of me either.



Maybe your DH just doesn't feel comfortable. How does he feel about you doing it in front of him? I know most guys love to watch, so maybe if you keep doing it in front of him, he'll get more comfortable about doing it together. What a wonderful goal you could set for this month!



Keep us posted....



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Registered: 02-17-2007
Tue, 09-18-2007 - 10:30pm
I voted for rarely, just because we haven't really done it that much lately.