My 1st anal sex experance

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My 1st anal sex experance
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Sat, 05-06-2006 - 12:52pm

I have been reading post on anal sex for a few weeks and I did some reading from links tish had provided in a post and decided I wanted to try it ( I had never tried it afraid it would hurt ) I talked to my husband about it and he was willing to try it we have been married 9 years and have done everything but anal


We started off slow just in case it hurt me (it didn't) and I found I actually liked it and from my husbands reaction I know he liked it too I guess I just wanted to post this to thank tish for the info links and to say with any sex act that you may want to try and are afraid to,try it once and if you don't like it you don't have to do it again but at least you have tried it so that you know if its right for you or not

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Sat, 05-06-2006 - 6:20pm
I'm glad to hear it worked out well for the both of you and

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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 10:35am
I'm sorry, but someone has to say this; don't you mean you're glad to hear it worked IN well?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 1:15pm

How about it worked well *in & out*.


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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 1:17pm
That's great that you tried and it worked out good.
I think that is the most important thing to anyone's sex life...the willingness to TRY!!!
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Registered: 11-04-2003
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 4:06am

Butt seriously; before me, my ex had bad experiences with anal, which she didn't tell me until afterwards. She also told me that I was by far the largest endowed man she had ever been with. I believe the word she used was "frightened" to describe her reaction when she first saw my member. And that was before I had even suggested anal. Not that I'm bragging, but all the men in her past were quite a bit smaller than me (she came from an area of the world where men are quite a bit smaller than me and that seemed to carry over into the size of their members).

However, she wound up enjoying it so much from the first time we did it that afterwards, she got extremely excited just at the thought that I was going to want it. She said that she had terrific orgasms from anal when we did it, while she only put up with it from earlier lovers.

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Registered: 01-18-2006
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 9:38pm
what do u mean it didn't hurt? My boyfriend and I have tried a number of times, I bleed for three days. I dont mind wanting to try it but if there is a way where it won't hurt Im down for it, what advice were you given and can you pass them along to me?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 9:52pm

Here is a post from me with links that Cook was talking about.


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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 4:57am

Sorry I have not replied to here I been rather busy with my kids thank for posting the link Tish


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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 11:15am

"I think that is the most important thing to anyone's sex life...the willingness to TRY!!!"

Well...if it's something that you're on the fence about....sure. However, when it's something you're sure that you wouldn't like for whatever reason, there's no need nor willingness to even try. For instance, I have no interest at all in allowing my partner to urinate in my mouth, or for anything scatological, threesomes or moresomes, and being hit hard or having my hair pulled during sex--to name a few. My husband has no interest at all in being done with a strap on, and all of the same things I mentioned. Some people have no interest in facials, swallowing, or anal sex. Everyone is different. Everyone knows their own limitations, and I think that we should respect them. People are not stupid, as I see it. Some people know when something definitely turns-them-on; and others know when something definitely turns-them-off. If one is true, so is the other.

Sex begins in the mind....if the mind is not into it, it's doubtful the body will follow, even if the act may feel good.

Not everyone needs to do a million different things to have a great sex life---some do, others do not. The most important thing to anyone's sex life, IMO, is not the willingness to try everything, but the willingness to respect each other's intelligence and boundaries.

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )