My Boyfriend is interested in BDSM
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My Boyfriend is interested in BDSM
| Mon, 10-11-2004 - 10:32pm |
I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. And at the moment we live in different cities. We chat online, which has allowed us to open up about our sexual needs. Well, I sent him this questionaire I found online- which is to improve your sex life. It asks your partner questions about what they like etc.
So, today as we were chatting my boyfriend told me that he is interested in S&M. And that he wants to be the bottom, and I be the top. I am not sure what to think of his wanting to be the bottom. I expect men to want to be the top, but I don't understand this. I'm open to understanding this, and am open to experimenting. So, could any of you please explain to me why you think a man would like to be the bottom and not the top?
Thanks.

Barbie
Suggest if you go ahead with this, remember for guys it's about stretching out the experience vs. how quick you can get him off. Tease him (then tease him some more) before you finally please him.