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My father hates my boyfriend!
| Mon, 06-02-2008 - 5:46am |
My father found out I was having sex with my new boyfriend and he hates him!
| Mon, 06-02-2008 - 5:46am |
My father found out I was having sex with my new boyfriend and he hates him!
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Ansel Adams
"It's a tough place to live, to deal with things the way they truely are."
Jumpin' Jehosophat...
Angola is a tough place to live, an inner city ghetto is a tough place to live. You live in a small town in middle America, never hungry, never homeless, no one's shooting at you 'cause they don't like the way you looked at them.
Being a teenager is a difficult time, yes. I know, I was a teen once as was everyone else here, and you have my sympathy and understanding that as you enter the world of adult choices it's a confusing, troubling time. But trying to convince anyone here that "everyone's doing it so it's okay" or that your reason for wanting to sleep around is because you live in a "tough place" ain't gonna fly.
You don't have to do what others are doing, you have to do what's right for you. There's nothing wrong with enjoying sex..indeed it's one of life's joys. But respect it, respect yourself, and don't try to validate your choices based upon what others are doing.
You are now at the beginning of your adult life, a time when many young people choose to go wild, they take the opportunities life presents them and abuse them instead of building the foundation of their future. Someday you will get married, you will have children of your own, and as a parent you will see them face the same choices you now have.
Take a moment, copy all of the words you've expressed here and all of the replies. Save them into a document, print it out, and put it away someplace safe. And in twenty years bring it out, read it, and I think you'll see the wisdom in the words of those who have taken time out from their lives to reply to you.
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Having a few relationships in life and having sex, I would hardly call "sleeping around", and laugh all you want, I don't see any guys here responding that they date girls who don't sleep with them, because the fact is...they don't.
"Plaese don't make comments about my life and how others have it harder when you don't know me."
Young lady, I shall make any and all comments here that I wish. When you post on a public bulletin board such as this you must be ready and willing to accept all views. If the responses you receive are personal attacks or otherwise violate the Terms of Service of that particular board then you are free to seek recourse with the moderators or adminstrators of that board.
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No, I don't know you. I have, however, read all of your comments, I have formed an opinion and that opinion is that you don't know how tough life can be. I also believe you are making some very poor choices in your life, and I base that belief on having made some very poor choices of my own over the course during my time on this planet.
Again, you may think you have it tough but I might suggest you look at the state the world is in today, that you compare your life to the majority of those who live in poverty, in fear, under despots, to those who ask only to be given the means to live one more day and to be free of torture. I ask that you look in your own town and see those who are less fortunate than you, that are living with cancer, who are outcasts, who live with alcoholism or are born to dysfunctional families.
Rather than looking at the misfortunes of others and using that to validate your feelings about how misunderstood you are by those of us here you might be better served to stop and think to yourself "There but for the Grace of God..." and live your life in a way that you will feel proud of, not one you feel the need to defend.
I do not have to know you to know that you have it much better than most other young ladies your age, and if it bothers you that I express that sentiment you are free to click one little button and henceforth ignore my posts.
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wow......wow......I'm almost speechless.
"You're goofy. I told you something and you chose not to listen."
Call me what you will, think of me as you will. All I hope is that some of what has been said to you here causes you to think just a bit.
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Thank you, you saved me from having to say it. And it needed to be said. Perhaps more than once.
Oh Nenu....but you would have said it so well.
(smiling)
Mrs P
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