my FIRST ORGASM!

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Registered: 12-15-2007
my FIRST ORGASM!
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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 5:08am

YAY! It finally happened!!

My BF and I are on the 9th month of our long distance relationship, haven't seen each other in almost three months. In the meantime, a few days ago I got myself a very, very small B.O.B I told the BF about it, and he didn't want me to use it at first because he wanted to be there. I was not happy about this because I lose my concentration very easily and it would just be easier to figure out on my own, and because I was worried that he would be expecting this big thing for me, and what if it was only a small orgasm?

We compromised. He wanted me to try it out on the phone together. Short story long, it happened, and it was SO weird but cool. But then immediately afterwards, I felt bad that I didn't wait for him to let him participate. :( !!!

and then tomorrow (oops, today now) I get to have my tonsils out...yeehaw....hasta.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 06-05-2008 - 7:10am

Congratulations on your first orgasm, Audrey! I don't think you should feel bad that you didn't get to share it with him .... by the time you see him, you'll probably be a pro at having them ;-)

Good luck with your tonsils.



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Registered: 12-15-2007
Sat, 06-07-2008 - 10:10pm

Thanks Misty, and thank you for all your advice and the articles you sent me (and to the others, too!)

That definitely helped, as did a small friend.

It was a lovely last hurrah before I had surgery the next day. haha! I have been absolutely miserable since... I can't hardly swallow my own spit. Here at 23 years old, getting all the kid surgeries done...

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Sun, 06-08-2008 - 7:08am
Awwww, hope you heal quickly, Audrey.


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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 06-08-2008 - 2:35pm

That is fantastic that you had your first O!

 

 

 

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Registered: 01-25-2008
Mon, 06-09-2008 - 7:52pm

They are the BEST aren't they!!!

 

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Registered: 12-15-2007
Mon, 06-09-2008 - 7:56pm

Thanks jaxmom and opal :) :)

I can't wait to try them with him. I haven't got them down yet...

About the tonsils, yes, it hurts, but I was expecting much worse from what people were telling me, and also because it hurt so much before the surgery. I was like, "Shoot, if these suckers hurt like this now, how will they hurt after they have been dissected and cauterized?'
Turns out it was about the same before and after--which probably speaks to the pain level before more than it does after.

It's better every day. Mostly I have laid low and had lots of liquids and pain meds, though, so that probably helped.

Now if only I weren't in the middle of finals...

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Registered: 03-14-2008
Mon, 06-09-2008 - 9:51pm
Hey, my first big O, and FE were both solo...that is the best way to learn..and I love to practice...practice makes perfect....I think at least for me, I found it easier the first time during solo..I think I was just more relaxed..and then no problem with DH...and he loves it...

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