My foul mouth

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Registered: 01-30-2004
My foul mouth
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Fri, 07-16-2004 - 6:08pm
I just realized that over the past few days as my relationship with a new b/f has heated up, my language has become really raunchy. It's not my vagina, it's my p______; not his penis but his big fat c___. And we don't just "have sex" -- he f____s me silly. The wierd thing is this is so satisfying -- a couple of years ago you would NEVER have caught me using these words -- I'm not going back to being G-rated. Ever! Not even at breakfast. So there. ;-)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: christy_la1
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 6:13pm
sounds hot! those words definitely capture the intensity much better.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: christy_la1
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 6:22pm
My hubby and I talk to each other like that - in private quarters, naturally. It's exciting and just talking that way can get us both going. In front of or with other people and the subject is sexual, I don't talk like that though.
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Registered: 07-14-2004
In reply to: christy_la1
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 10:29am
I would much rather have my BFs c**k in my p***y than his penis in my vagina!

I didn't talk dirty until this BF and I love it. It gets me very horny and into it.

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Registered: 01-30-2004
In reply to: christy_la1
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 12:16pm
I think it's just a matter of respect ... there are some -- by no means many -- guys who can let you be yourself w/o losing respect for you. I wish they offered lessons in How To Be A Guy. Most men seem to have no clue about how to bring out the inner slut in me without being wierd about it ... then I CAN'T do it. I'm not exactly sure what the difference is. I don't claim to have any expertise in psychology, he just makes me feel very beautiful. I guess it's slightly submissive of me but it's quite quite voluntary rather than forced in any way. I give him a foul mouth, and he keeps my mouth fouled. ;-)
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Registered: 05-16-2004
In reply to: christy_la1
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 1:19pm
One guy point of view. I think that most of us want to be special to our love. That is why it is great when we think that we can bring out the slut in our women (that god lets tear these clothes off so I can get to your body) I want to nail you right here kind of emotions. It is a super charged kind of a gut level sexual high. Now if she is this way with everyone everywhere then we are no longer in the special catagory and she is a slut everywhere and it is no longer unique.

Just my opinion.

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Registered: 07-14-2004
In reply to: christy_la1
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 3:19pm
I know what you mean Christy.

I am very nice in public and my other bfs probably thought I wanted to be nice in bed. But my bf Ben used nasty words about our second or third time in bed so I started using them too. Telling him what I wanted and where I wanted it.

Now we get really dirty. I know it's just part of fun and sex when he calls me a slutty Chinese girl, or worse, cause I know he really loves me.

And when I talk in a thicker Chinese accent than I still have, he gets really turned on.

What do you say to your guy? I would like to know new hot things to say.

lili_fromtx@yahoo.com

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: christy_la1
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 12:53pm
What difference does it make, really? It's what's HAPPENING at the time that's exciting, not what you're saying. I know what's going on in my mind, at that moment, can't be verbalized.
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In reply to: christy_la1
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 12:58pm
There has to be a very high "comfort level" between a man and a woman to thoroughly enjoy dirty talk during sex. It is even more effective when the participants are not like this in every-day life. The sudden change during sex can be very erotic and enjoyable. My wife wants me to be very quiet when she is reaching an orgasm . She is fanatacizing all in her mind. I, on the other hand, just love the "dirty talk" and my wife knows exactly which things to say and which buttons to push.
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In reply to: christy_la1
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 3:09pm
Kat, it does make a big difference for those who are "turned on" by the "dirty talk". I guess it is not stimulating for everyone, but some of us really enjoy it and it really heightens the excitement.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
In reply to: christy_la1
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 3:15pm
I love dirty talk, probably more than my husband does. The raunchier the better ;o) I also like it when we aren't having sex, but are anticipating it. Like if we're out, and he starts whispering in my ear all the things he's going to do to me when we get home.

Leticia

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