My Friend's Mom

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Registered: 11-17-2007
My Friend's Mom
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Sat, 11-17-2007 - 2:53am

I attend a community college. My close friend left in the fall to attend a college out of the state. While he has been away his mom and I have become closer. I am 20 and she is 41. I have always had a good relationship with his mom. I am from a family without my own mother. My friend, whose mom we are talking about, is without his father. His mom divorced his dad many years ago. Even though both my friend and I are from single parent families are parents are not close. I have known his mom for many years as well. She has always been very nice to me. When I was in high school she gave me advice about the girls and we talked about my love life. After leaving high school my girlfriend and I have gone different ways. Since being in college I have been coming over just as much to my friend’s house even though he is away at college. I have been enjoying the company of his mom. We now make dinner and eat together once a week. Since I became interested in girls I have found her attractive in a mature way. Our conversations have become more personal and intimate. I know she cares about me but maybe now in a physical way.


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 7:15am

Welcome to the board, Paul. How cool is it that you're only 20, attending community college, and able to afford a cruise for two! Wow, I've been waiting to go on a cruise, and am trying to budget the money for our dream to come true by the time my hubby retires.

Personally, I think if a woman has a man in her house, and leaves the bathroom door open while showering, barring a faulty lock, she's at least a little hopeful that he'll make an appearance. As far as talking to her son, I would ask her opinion about that. Their relationship is more important than the friendship you and he share, so I would let that be her call. Chances are, she's just interested in a fling with a younger guy, and she may not want her son knowing about her sex life.





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Registered: 12-12-2006
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 11:43am

Have you ever seen "The Graduate" starring Dustin Hoffman and Anne Bancroft?

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Registered: 11-15-2007
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 2:37pm

Dude,


What are you waiting for? Next time she kisses you kiss her back. Then move your kisses to her neck. Almost ALL women like this. If you here a moan keep going.


Some other points.


Do NOT fall in love with her. She will be able to teach you quite a bit about making love to a woman but she might just want sex from you. (You lucky guy!!)


Do NOT talk to her son. IMO this is just about sex not a relationship.


DO: Learn all you can. Your future girlfriends will be amazed with your lovemaking ability.


DO: Tell her to take command in bed. If she wants you to go down on her tell her to tell you to.


Instead of going for a cruise on spring break stay in her bed for the week.


Why couldn't this have happened to me?


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 3:54pm

Welcome to the board, Hand. Thanks for joining in.

I see you're a fellow Scorpio. There are several of us here :-D We recently had a thread you might be interested in:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlletstalkab/?msg=21148.1





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Registered: 10-09-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 5:07pm

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Wed, 11-21-2007 - 5:53pm

I agree with you.

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Registered: 06-28-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 6:03pm

**This friend said to my son "you're mom is hot, I wouldn't mind doing her".**


Yeesh!!

 

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Registered: 10-09-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 6:11pm

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Registered: 12-08-2007
Sat, 12-08-2007 - 10:12pm

hey


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 8:23am
Welcome to the board, Aaron, and thanks for joining in.