My guy won't come without sex

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Registered: 06-02-2006
My guy won't come without sex
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Sat, 01-13-2007 - 4:29pm
I'm holding off on sex with the guy I'm dating at the moment. We have an active sexual relationship up to, but exluding actual intercourse. He says I really turn him on and he seems really aroused when we get sexual but he never comes, even after a long time. He says he's just learned to not come before sex and that him getting off isn't that important because he's enjoying himself anyway. The thing is I still want to wait a while for sex but in the meantime he's servicing me amazingly and I can't return the favour. I haven't had trouble getting other guys off in the past, but I wonder if there's something I'm doing wrong, or not enough, or not well enough. Opinions and advice are appreciated.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 01-18-2007 - 8:07am

Your partner is helping the process but it is up to YOU to have an orgasm the same as it's up to him to have an orgasm.


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Registered: 12-19-2006
Thu, 01-18-2007 - 8:39am

I agree with Tish, I also have the same problem with my husband he doesn't cum without having sex. But we have sex. It not your problem that he doesn't cum it his just like yours.

Rochelle

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Registered: 01-17-2007
Thu, 01-18-2007 - 1:24pm
I agree with the fact that as an individual you are in charge of your own O or pleasure but as a young woman in a wonderful relationship including wonderful sex I refuse to think of my partner as a glorified vibrator!

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