My Husband Makes Me Uncomfortable

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Registered: 03-24-2008
My Husband Makes Me Uncomfortable
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Mon, 03-24-2008 - 12:42pm

My husband and I have never had a crazy, do-it-like-rabbits

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Registered: 01-25-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 9:47am

hi babe...


so sorry to hear about your problems! he sound like a real jerk!!!! I agree with other responders - you are entitled to your own feelings and emotions - I wouldn't do stuff I'm not comfortable with and wouldn't want to force anyone to do it


with my ex-hubby I used to have a lot of anals - which I love, but my present bf is not comfortable with it so I would never force him to do anything like that.


try some counseling for you and your dh to talk things through

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Registered: 12-27-2007
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 10:39am

Hey, I am really sorry you are going through this! This really sucks, and is very unfair.


Guys can be really thoughtless, and absolute pigs at times. It seems to me that you have gone out of your comfort zone to compromise, and try and accomodate him, it is now his turn to compromise and accomodate you!


It sounds as though he has got the keeping up with the Joneses complex. I guess the one good thing that can be said about the whole situation is that he seems to be quite proud of you, and your appearance, he does want to show you off. It's a "hey look what

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Registered: 03-24-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 11:26am

I don't see him as abusive but more like selfish and he claims that by me not doing what the voyueristic (sp?)

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Registered: 03-24-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 11:41am

Thanks to every one who took the time to help a complete stranger.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 11:44am

I'm glad you found the suggestions here helpful.

Good luck with your talk.

Feel free to keep us updated on how things are going too.





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Registered: 02-17-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 9:10pm

Just want to say it sounds more immature than selfish....

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Registered: 05-20-2007
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 11:38pm

He is being ridiculous. He shouldn't impose his sex ideals on you, especially if they are as far fetched and kinky as his,

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