My husband prefers masturbation !
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My husband prefers masturbation !
| Wed, 09-06-2006 - 6:43am |
The last three years I suffer a lot as I discovered that my husband masturbates every day! We hardly have sex once a week and I have very bad feelings for him. I feel that he has completely destroy my female being, I want to kill him when I know that behind the closed door he is masturbating.
I tried many ways to approach him, being more sexual, discussed it, fighting, visit therapist ... but still nothing changed.
I think that I have turned to be psychotic with this situation, I have a lot of health symptoms and after 3 years I turn to be really depressed with this situation.
On the other hand he is a very tender man, loves me deeply but he told me that it is an addiction that he cant resist.
Please help!

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I'm inclined to agree with you, tish. I don't think that masturbating every day is necessarily a bad thing. But when you're having sex less than once a week with your wife, who not only wants sex but is doing everything that she can to encourage it, THEN you do need to take a closer look at it.
Is it an addiction? Who would know? Does it matter what it is or what it isn't? Clearly it isn't something that he's willing to stop in a hurry and it is causing problems.
Dear all friends!
Thank you very much for all your kind attempts to help me.
First I would like to make clear that I m very passionate woman and my libido is really high. So dont even think that I havent try all teh ways to make our bed attractive!! He also accept all the above.
About my expression of being "psychotic" it is an expression that I used to show you how much disapointed and depressed I am with all this story. Nothing more.
Since I first realized that he is masturbating almost every day... I was in my planet! Because we had a very good sexual life. After it and watch more carefuly every day I realized more for his masturbation.
I m open to tell you more and Really I thank you very much for the help!!!!
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