My man wants me to shave...
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My man wants me to shave...
| Wed, 12-22-2004 - 12:49pm |
My SO wants me to shave. He saw my "bush" the other day & said, "When are you going to shave that? It's a turn-off." I shave now -n- then, but I've gotten real slack lately w/ my hygiene. I told him, "It's my body & if I don't feel like shaving, I won't. I might trim it a little." He didn't say a daggone word after that. Not ALL women shave... in a matter of fact, most women don't b/c they don't feel they need to... and if their man ain't happy with it, they move on. A guy should respect your body. Am I right or am I right (being sarcastic)?

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Disagree with you on that.
Oh, Puh-leeease.
Do you think oral sex just started in the past few years when (some, not all) woman started shaving their pubes? Do you think oral doesn't occur at all in countries where women don't shave at all?
Hell, I didn't shave at all until just a couple of years ago, and that was just for the heck of it. And I got plenty of oral from my DH. And if I let it grow again, I'd still get plenty of it. The women I used to work with, in their 40s, 50s and 60s, none of them shave and yet they are frequent oral sex recipients, from Hs or just dates.
""It's your body but if you want him to go down on you, then I would suggest you shave. Who really wants a mouthful of hair? Eww! It holds oders and it is also rough sometimes."
A man's point of view here:
A mouthful of hair? If you're getting a mouthful of hair you're doing it wrong. You open the woman's labial lips and put your mouth and tongue there. Even the bushiest woman has no hair inside her lips and at most you have to deal with some around the edges. As for the oft-mentioned "picking her hairs out of your teeth" , my wife is totally unshaved and I frequently go down on her. I NEVER get her pubic hair in my mouth. I occassionally get her head hair in my mouth while kissing, etc. Should I have her shave her head? For that matter she gets mine in hers. Should we both shave our heads? Of course not, it's a very minor inconvenience.
" Eww! It holds oders[sic}"
If a woman has an odor that is a problem - take a shower. It takes about five minutes. Personally, my wife doesn't have to be freshly showered.
"and it is also rough sometimes."
Pubic hair that is fully grown out is seldom rough. It's usually kind of silky. Trimmed can be rougher, and stubble from shaving is like sandpaper.
"if you want him to go down on you"
This is what really steams me about this issue. It's like blackmail: shave it or no oral for you. Any man who is willing to pleasure his woman orally should be willing to deal with a little pubic hair. Any man who refuses to go down on you unless you shave doesn't deserve to be in bed with you in the first place. I've been going down on women for over 30 years and I've never been with one who shaved and I've never had a problem.
taoist
>>As for the oft-mentioned "picking her hairs out of your teeth" , my wife is totally unshaved and I frequently go down on her. I NEVER get her pubic hair in my mouth.<<
I sometimes read the same sentiments written by women regarding oral and unshaved men. In 20 years of giving oral sex to a man, I've never had a hair between my teeth. And a stray hair in my mouth only a couple of times. I just can't figure out what these women are doing wrong. Just like you've described for a woman, the part of the penis receiving the action is a long way from his pubic hair.
>>Pubic hair that is fully grown out is seldom rough. It's usually kind of silky. Trimmed can be rougher, and stubble from shaving is like sandpaper.<<
Hear hear. And exactly the reason I don't shave. My DH loathes the stubble of even a half day growth....and who wants to inflict pain on their partner? LOL.
I'm having a chuckle about American men. I read so many posters saying that they won't give oral to an unshaved vulva. And I've noticed that American men wear padding and helmets to play football. Are your men really so delicate?
Give me a durable Aussie bloke anyday.
Aisha, not all American men are like the ones some of the posters talk about.
I can only hope these girls find a good man. I can't begin to imagine having a partner like they describe.
However, while I was joking about the American men thing, what I really can't get my head around is the idea that some men might truly say "no" to all unshaved girls. Methinks that girls are putting out far too easily if (some) men can afford to be that picky. I remember when I was that age (sounding like my mum!), and a man was just happy to be getting some.
Our footy is the same as in England. It's mostly Rugby Union and Rugby League, plus Australian Rules in some other states (which I can't even begin to describe LOL)
We do have many players the size of your nephew...running into some of our forwards is akin to hitting a brick wall. I've seen forwards with two little guys hanging on in an effort to tackle him.
However, we do have rules around tackling to avoid injury. No "head high" tackles and you can't pick someone up and dump them head first into the ground. Of course, no stomping, biting etc. In a textbook tackle, you leap at the guy who has the ball, your arms go around his hips and you slide down so that their legs are restrained and they fall.
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