As for my man's porn use,

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Registered: 02-17-2007
As for my man's porn use,
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Sun, 04-22-2007 - 8:11pm

As for my man's porn use,



  • he never watches porn
  • don't know if he watches it, but it would be ok
  • don't know if he does, but he better not !!!!
  • he watches some porn and it bothers me
  • he watches some porn and it's ok with me
  • he watches a lot of porn and it bothers me
  • he watches a lot of porn and it's ok with me


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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sun, 04-22-2007 - 8:17pm

I voted *he watches some porn and it's ok with me*.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 04-22-2007 - 8:52pm
I voted he watches some porn and it's okay with me. Sometimes we watch together, sometimes we watch alone, and we are both okay with that. As long as porn doesn't interfere with what happens between us, then all is good. At this point in the game, I can't imagine that it would ever be a problem.


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Registered: 03-11-2005
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 4:25am
DW and I always watch porn during sex. We almost never watch alone. She likes it as much as I do. We find it very erotic.
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Registered: 02-17-2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 12:52pm
What would she say if you started watching it alone?
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Registered: 03-11-2005
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 4:59am
Neither of us cares if the other watches alone, but we find it much more erotic to watch together and fantasize.
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Registered: 02-17-2007
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 1:37pm
Does anyone ever wish the internet was never invented so we could all just have normal sexual relationships with our men?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 3:07pm
The internet has not affected my DHs appetite for porn, but then again, he's not computer savvy. If he looks at internet porn, it's because I find it for him. I think internet porn encourages people to have more porn, but I don't think it has to affect your sex life. Anyway, I don't think there is a "normal" for a sex life. It depends on the relationship and the two people involved. We have gone through phases of no sex to abundant sex -- and every stage inbetween. I think our sexual relationship is normal for us. We're both very satisfied with it, so it doesn't make any difference if others have more sex, less sex, or sex differently.


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Registered: 02-15-2007
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 3:26pm

I voted "He watches some porn and it is ok with me". DW knows that I will watch on occasion but usually it is only during commercials of the ballgame or something similar. lol Rarely, we watch it together as she is not a big fan of it unless there is some sort of story line which is hard to find. In a perfect world she would rather I not watch at all but she doesn't mind. She likes to give me a hard time about when she finds the DVD in the player. Rarely if at all do I engage in a solo act during.

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 3:51pm
Actually, this question was for women. You can try to answer for your wife, but wives don't always tell their husbands how they really feel.
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Registered: 02-15-2007
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 3:58pm
I apologize for answering for DW. You're right, she could be lying to me about the way she feels about it. But so far it has not caused any fights or anything. Like I said, it is rare 1-2 times a week if that, that I watch, and again, it's only for 2-3 minutes at a time during commercials just to pass the time. Besides, it helps me get in the mood for when she comes home, which can be difficult at times with a 6 month old around.

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