My Odd Preference/Fascination

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Registered: 12-27-2003
My Odd Preference/Fascination
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Fri, 12-02-2005 - 2:37pm

When I was about 12 years old, I worked in my father's shoe store.

 

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 12-02-2005 - 4:38pm

As fetishes go, I don't think it's odd or unusual at all. Shoe/foot fetish is probably one of the most common.

Lot's of guys are "turned on" by high heels, particularly during or as a prelude to sex. There's even a name for them: F.... Me shoes.

Unless you happen to run across a very repressed prudish woman, I doubt very much if most women would be disturbed by your fetish.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Fri, 12-02-2005 - 9:32pm

Provided it isn't a full-on fetish and you don't NEED it to enjoy sex then I can't see anything wrong with it. I think that it's a reasonably common kink for many guys and when you think about it, the sole (pun not intended) reason for wearing sexy shoes is to look sexier. They make your feet look sexy and they stretch your legs into a sexier shape, and put a sexy wiggle into your walk and posture .

I think that because they're shoes most people forget or overlook the fact that high heels are all about sex.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2005
Mon, 12-05-2005 - 3:17pm

I think its very erotic and very much a turn on to have a guy massage my feet. I also thinks it would be hot to have a guy get down on his knees and polish my sexy shoes. I'm actually suprised many other women here haven't responded...it makes me feel kind of an odd one out for admitting to liking a man to care for my feet and shoes...

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 12-05-2005 - 6:52pm

I don't think you're weird or "psycho" because you like stilettos or women's feet in them. We ALL have our preferences when it comes to certain clothing and body parts, etc.

But I don't think any woman would like feeling that's the ONLY thing a partner likes or even the main thing you like. And besides...shoes are inanimate objects, NOT part of the person at all.

It could begin to feel like you're actually being aroused by the shoes and not the person in the shoes.

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Registered: 12-05-2005
Mon, 12-05-2005 - 8:56pm
I don't think your weird or different at all. My boyfriend loves high heels & loves open toed shoes so he can see my toes better. He loves my feet they seem to turn him on. He's always kissing, rubbing or sucking on them and I love it. Love to wear them when we're making love too.
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Registered: 12-14-2005
Wed, 12-14-2005 - 5:35am
I think what you said is so HOT! I don't think is weird or anything. There will be a day when you tell a girl about this and the next thing you know she will show up in a trench coat and stilettos. I would make your little fetish known, some girls like that sort of thing.