In my Prime?

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Registered: 07-16-2003
In my Prime?
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Fri, 07-08-2005 - 7:29pm

I am in my prime right now and i haven't been with anyone for 2 yrs. I am talking to this guy who wants to take things very slowly and i am find with that, no happy about that because he wants to get to know me more which is a good thing. But my problem is i haven't been with anyone and the feeling went away cause i was so busy between kids, work, school and no man in my life. now my friend would come over and stay the night and we would cuddle but lately my hormones are raging and i am ready to burst. my girlfriend told me its because i have the scent of a man next to me and i hit my prime and i am ready to blow. how should i tell him this without him thinking "yeah right she hasn't been with anyone for two years." But i do have a friend who is willing to break me off good but i feel that it should be with my friend instead cause the way i feel around him. should i tell my friend about my raging hormones and that i am ready to blow with him if not i will have my friend break me off.

flores

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: flores73
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 9:30pm

I personally don't believe there is a sexual prime.


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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: flores73
Sat, 07-09-2005 - 12:40am

Tish is right.....your "prime" can last all your life if you want it to, and if you're in a good relationship. Your friend is right, the best sex is between two people who know each other well. Not only will it be good sex, it will get better and better, as long as you're healthy, and have a good attitude about it.

Your other friend is offering to "do you a favor"? No, he's looking for sex, and he thinks you're desperate enough so that he'll get some. Tell him to do someone else a favor.

Listen to this guy.......get to know each other, trust each other, and be comfortable with each other. Your "prime" will still be there, and your relationship will be good.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: flores73
Sat, 07-09-2005 - 12:58am
In agreement with the others. Your prime is whenever you want it to be. There is no set "prime," though. If you want to speed things up with this guy, then say so.