My tummy.

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Registered: 01-21-2007
My tummy.
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Sun, 09-30-2007 - 7:32pm
I notice my tummy tends to start hurting when my b/f and I are having sex dogge style. If he goes fast my tummy hurts alot around the abdomen area. Does this happen to anyone else? And if it doesn't, should I see a doctor about this? I feel it bothers my b/f that he can't go fast cause he'll hurt me but he's not saying anything. When he goes fast when were doing it missionary position, I'm fine though. It feels good. But when he goes fast doggie style it hurts my abdomen. I don't know why.
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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: babydiva2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 7:44pm
Doggy allows for deeper penetration than missionary, and it's possible that your BF is bottoming out on your cervix in this position. DW and I have this problem with doggy sometimes, and I have to be careful not to hurt her. She says it feels like I get about 2 inches bigger just before I come, and she starts trying to pull away from me right at the moment when I am trying to do just the opposite.


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Registered: 11-13-2005
In reply to: babydiva2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 8:24pm
This happens to me as well. My OB said it is from 2 reasons. One is that I am a smaller build and the man is "bottoming out" since he can go in further in this position and the other is that I have a tipped uterus so it creates more pressure. Neither have stopped me from this position because I have found that if he works me up before hand and either gives me an O or at least gets me close, the endorphins, etc that are released help it not to hurt.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: babydiva2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 9:17pm
As the other members have said, it's most likely that he's bottoming out, or bumping into your cervix. It can be very painful, especially if he's thrusting hard and fast. It can also feel pleasant at times. If you still want to try this position, have him thrust using shorter strokes, and as the intensity builds up for you, then you can ask him to go faster or harder. Most guys love dirty talk anyway, and this is a great way to begin with it.









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Registered: 01-21-2007
In reply to: babydiva2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 9:42pm
This happens to me as well. My OB said it is from 2 reasons. One is that I am a smaller build and the man is "bottoming out" since he can go in further in this position and the other is that I have a tipped uterus so it creates more pressure. Neither have stopped me from this position because I have found that if he works me up before hand and either gives me an O or at least gets me close, the endorphins, etc that are released help it not to hurt.