MY WAYS...

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Registered: 12-01-2003
MY WAYS...
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Mon, 10-03-2005 - 12:34pm

<> written by: ilovemovies

First of all, it wasnt a few days that i had to think about my abortion. i was 7 weeks pregnant when i got my abortion. i do agree, YES. i wasnt sure that i was really ready to go on with it but i did anyways.. it was kind of like PURE PRESSURE.
but gosh, with my last post "HIS WAYS.." it went out the window with extreme harsh and detailed feelings about abortions, me... blah blah blah. my feelings arent hurt at all, and i didnt get to see all the posts until now which is too late because i couldnt even reply on them.

I personally want to say thank you to Tish because i think she understands me more because she reads alot about me and half of you dont even know my stories.

Everything with me is back to normal.. Me and my boyfriend talk everyday and see eachother often and we dont bring up the topic about "our baby" ... thats why i said everything is like back to normal. i really dont know how i feel about that.

Another important thing i wanted to say to you all was.. "YES" when i went and got my abortion the doctors talked to me about what the procedure is going to be like before and after.. what i had to do.. blah blah blah. they also talked to me to make sure it was my decision and no one elses... One thing i did that i wasnt supposed to was after my abortion when i was getting check to leave home was look at the ultra sound picture. My aunt works there and she let me see it. i wanted to keep it but she wouldnt let me. But that was depressing for me and now as i go back and think about it i can feel myself going into that depressing stage again ::sad face::

i already know that this board is about SEX and not abortions.. blah blah. But in order to get an abortion you have to have sex besides i like this board better than going to the abortion board because theres not really that many people there to comment back. Been there done that.

Thank you all anyways... even the people who were negative to me.
Naleiya (OP of His Ways..)

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Registered: 01-28-2004
In reply to: naleiya
Mon, 10-03-2005 - 1:38pm

Hi Naleiya and everyone -


I'm glad that you've gotten back to some semblance of normalcy with your boyfriend now. I hope that you can continue to heal.


However, in the interest to prevent this topic from getting out of hand further on the board, I would ask that any discussion/debate on the topic of abortion be moved to a more appropriate forum.



Thank you!


Corrine, Sr Community Moderator

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