My wife and Vampires

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Registered: 05-28-2008
My wife and Vampires
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 7:32pm

I sure some of you are thinking 'WTF' after reading my discussion title. It was the best way to get your attention.

First, a little background: I'm a 45-year-old male in a Southern city. My wife is 44, but she looks at least 10 years younger. We've been married 22 years, and we feel like we have a strong marriage. We have two kids in their older teens.

My wife is a dedicated bookreader - especially romance novels. She goes through at least two a week. She also science fiction. In the past few months, I noticed that her books had a common theme - vampires. I scanned through a few of those books, and they are very erotic - especially those written by Laurell K. Hamilton.

I'm not jealous or upset that she's reading these books. She can read anything she wants. I'm simply trying to understand the attraction my wife and other women have for vampires. I'd like to know more about it, and maybe I could incorporate that theme into future lovemaking sessions - well, something besides dressing up like vampire. (haha). Believe me, at 5-foot-8 and 225 pounds with a "beer gut," I don't think I'd be the ideal vampire. I get the feeling my wife likes those who are who's tall with dark hair and are physically fit.

I do know she likes being kissed and nibbled on down her neck - as if a vampire was going to take a bite out of her - by someone dancing or standing very close behind her. I saw this last year when she danced with another guy in a New Orleans club. I stepped outside to catch my breath after a few dances, and when I walked back into the club some handsome Latino guy had moved in and was dancing very closely behind my wife, kissing down her neck. Her right arm pulled back and with her right hand guided his head down her neck. She had never done this with me. After this went on for an hour on the floor, they took a break and I caught her attention to let her know I was back and she resumed dancing with me. I wasn't upset with her, just wondering what she was willing to do.

I'd like to hear your ideas and suggestions about how I can help make her passion for vampires a part of our sexual play and even enhance it. Or maybe should I just leave it alone and let her enjoy it by herself ... or with someone else?

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Mon, 06-16-2008 - 5:24am
I was reading your profile and you have a zoo! I would be in heaven! Right now I only have two cats, but I want more rats and more ferrets myself. I haven't had any small fuzzy critters since W/we had to put down O/our last gerbil Ashe the day after Thanksgiving. I've already told Master that when W/we get more little fuzzies I want more rats. I miss my little guys and gals!
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Registered: 09-21-2007
Mon, 06-16-2008 - 8:58am
Yeah, we have a zoo here! It can get quite hectic, especially when my Mom and her dog are here, but I love it. I have always loved animals, especially dogs, and I can't image not having at least one. I also love my ferrets and rats too! The only thing that gets annoying is having to clean their cages so often (otherwise the smell is just unbearable). But, seeing as we love them, it is something that we do. My DH keeps saying that when the ferrets and rats are gone, that he doesn't want anymore small furry critters (he hates cleaning the cages, although he does help me with them). I'm pretty sure that I'll be able to convince him to let me have some more, though. It's how I got the rats. I saw them in the pet store one day and thought they were adorable. I went home, started talking to my DH about them, and maybe 1-2 days later we went back and bought the first one. Then a week after that, he wanted one, so that's how we ended up with two. If I was able to provide for more animals, I would definitely have more. Most of the time, I like animals better than people anyway! The animals aren't quite as idiotic as some people....at least in my opinion.




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Mon, 06-16-2008 - 10:17am
Welcome to the board, Heather, and thanks for joining in.



Have you checked out the newer board, Hot Topic: Sex & Spirituality?

That would be a better place for you to get into a discussion about how you feel with regards to vampires and your beliefs.

You are welcome to discuss your beliefs on this board, but please remember that not everyone will share the same views. Several members have been enjoying this on-going discussion, and while it's okay to share your views on the topic as they pertain to you, it's likely to open a debate if you try to tell others what they should or shouldn't do based on your religious beliefs.


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