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| Wed, 07-25-2007 - 7:21am |
My husband and I had a great sex life and then sometime last year it fizzled. In April we started to regain momentum but I'm afraid that I'm not arousing him enough. There are times when I try and come on to him and he deflects me by saying he's "TOO TIRED." I know he works hard(road construction worker) and puts in very long days. Some days he works 14 hrs and some days only 8hrs. He does work up to six days a week but usually only works M-F. He doesn't see it as rejection when he turns me down and sometimes he does get annoyed if I feel bad.
He always tells me how much he loves me, how beautiful and sexy I am, how happy he is w/me in his life. I can't help that I sometimes feel bad when he says no. He doesn't usually say no on the weekends (fri-sun) but on occasion he has been to tired on fri nights. My husband is a very generous lover and always makes sure to satisfy me when we do make love. He doesn't just worry about himself, but I know that there is no chance for romance during the work week unless he initiates it, which he does on occasion. Should I be worried, or is this normal?

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