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| Wed, 08-15-2007 - 6:02pm |
Having some serious problems.
I'm posting this here because many of you give great advice.
Plus this is my favorite board! lol
Ok so here it goes. Dh has become not just a little obsessed he's become
so obsessed i just want to run! He gets mad at me quite often if i spend
to much time with friends or family! He says he can't stand for me to leave
the room. He is extremely jealous of every body around me. It use to not
be so bad but now it's gotten to be to much he's obsessed with checking every
thing i do online. It upsets him if i think a guy is hot! Now come on i'm not
blind or dead and nether is he! There are many beautiful people out there!
So what if i look! it's not like i say oh he's hot! He's also very insecure
i'm sure you could assume that. He's always asking me do you love me? how much?
are you sure i'm the one you wanna be with? All this crap! It's driving me nuts!
I've told him he's smothering me and he's scaring me. I've been stocked and obsessed
over 2 times! I don't need nor want this from him. Obsession is not love it's exactly what
it is obsession! Never a good thing in my opinion. Right? I don't want to be obsessed
over him it would drive me crazy it's like not functioning. I just feel like I'm under
the radar all the time now. It's not fair i don't do this to him.. I just want to be loved
not obsessed over. I feel like i have to watch every thing i do! I have talked to him about it. That didn't work so I screamed at him! That didn't work so now I'm leaving!
I told him I'm not asking i gotta go! We need to take a break before it's over for good.
Now i got him listening alittle. What would you do? What do you think? I'm am so happy to be leaving is that a bad thing? Am i wrong to feel this way? I'm trying really really hard to make this work. I'm at the end of my rope and i could use some advice!
Thanks so much.
Kareese

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It is kind of funny that I'm CL on two boards that kind of oppose each other, then got paired up with way different siggy partners too.
Carrie
Yikes, forgot I was logged in as CL. I hate it when that happens.
I hope I get to go to another game this year.
Carrie
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