Need Help- I couldn't control myself?

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Registered: 03-22-2008
Need Help- I couldn't control myself?
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Wed, 07-16-2008 - 10:30pm
Um... I was in here before and talked about having an affair with my boss and we've been okay for a long time- we haven't had sex in like four months or longer- we've been doing very well.

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Registered: 03-22-2008
Tue, 07-29-2008 - 7:44pm
Yeah, your right.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 07-30-2008 - 1:03am
Good on you for staying strong, but beware that being "friends one day" thing - I think that most people that break a relationship off like to think that one day you'll be able to be good friends with the "ex" but I also think that it doesn't work quite like that either.
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Registered: 02-17-2007
Wed, 07-30-2008 - 6:49pm

I know I am a bit late in all of this, but I just finished reading through your posts and I wanted to congratulate you for stepping out of that situation and surrounding yourself with people who are helping you through it. It takes a strong person to do so, especially considering your past. Stay strong and do not fall back into old habits. You are already fully aware of the consequences of that, so don't even tempt yourself. Stay the strong woman that you have become!

On a side note, I would suggest that any time he calls/texts or contacts you in any way, just delete it or throw it away. Whatever goes on in his life is something he needs to deal with with those IN his life - you are trying to separate yourself from him, not go back to him. Be strong! Keep us posted.

 

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