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need help with oral
| Thu, 07-22-2004 - 12:08am |
I never thought I had a problem with oral sex; have actually been told I did it quite well in the past. But, my boyfriend doesn't feel the same. He told me in the beginning of our relationship (6 months ago) how he preferred it to be performed on him. I tried my best...had never used that particular technique before. I didn't think it was going that bad, but he has never came when I perform it. To make matters worse, I know that his ex-girlfriend did it quite to his liking...and since he knows I know this, I think he feels very uncomfortable when I want to "practice", even though he says that practice is all we need to cure this problem. He probably feels obligated to get off, and I understand this. But now what do we do? We got in a horrible fight about this last weekend...well, we were both drunk, so that didn't help. I guess I was prying into oral sex with his ex (I don't remember)---he said that he felt "backed against a wall", and he went off and said that his ex used to do it in the truck and he'd come in her mouth, and that I SUCK! He later said I didn't suck, that he was just mad and looking for the meanest thing to say at the time, but I'm worried about this. I read in a book called What Do Men Want that if you are not giving your man good oral sex, he will CONTINUOUSLY think about the last person/time he got it. He claims this isn't so and didn't have oral sex from his ex-wife for 6 years....but I am tending to believe the book. And I don't want him to always think of his ex as the blow job goddess.

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You my dear are a saint, and are wonderful, to put forth the effort just to please him, to do things just as he wants it just to gratify him, where are you at again, and are you available, lol.
The idea that he doesnt want you to practice, HELLO! I mean what is with that. I tell you what, if you need to practice on someone Im always free, lol
Anyhow to the point. I think you need to move on, and stop letting him treat you like a second fiddle.
How could I fall in love with somebody that most other people can see is a bad catch??
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