need help in sexual life in marriage

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-16-2006
need help in sexual life in marriage
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Tue, 08-15-2006 - 3:00pm
I have been married year and 3 months. it was ok in beginning. but from last few months, my DH is neglecting me. we haven't enjoy sex from months. when i asked him about sex,he said that "when we do love, he gets pain and he has no more intrest.....:)" he is big compare to me,,,,i mean both physically and sex organs. few days ago he did not talk to me properly. we talked less than 2 sentences a day. but it is ok now. he has hectic schedule at work....... i asked him to go to sex therapist or marriage counsellor. because he has no more intrest and that pain,,, he denied it. i am worried about it. and when i start to do foreplay, he just ignores me. and sometimes he gets angry on me and said that i told you that i don't want to do that. i don't remember when we did that last time, i know sex is not everything in life but it is something in life... help me out.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-16-2006
Tue, 08-22-2006 - 2:01pm

Thanks everyone,

I am happy that i got reply from all of you. your advices are helping me. i am not saying that the problem is totally solved but my relatonship is getting better now. thanks

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-22-2003
Wed, 08-23-2006 - 1:11pm
Sounds like maybe he is getting sex somewhere else if he is so uninterested at home and not willing to see a doctor.

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