need help with toy selection

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Registered: 11-15-2006
need help with toy selection
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Thu, 01-18-2007 - 7:53pm

Hi folks! I know there is a section dedicated to toys but this board seems to have more people who participate so I am seeking advice.
I am looking for a clit vibrator to use during intercourse. I have quite a selecion already but none seems to fit the situation. Here is what I am looking for: a STRONG vibration that is cordless and small enough to use DURING intercourse. I have a rabbit and a hatichi wand that provides the PUNCH I am loooking for but both are way too big and awkward. I have bullets and pocket rocket types of various sizes and shapes but they are too weak to provide me enough stimulation. ALSO I really want as quiet as possible. The rabbit I have as well as the wand are LOUD!!!
Please..please someone tell me of something they have that they could reccommend...price is no object!

Thanks so much for your suggestions.



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Design Your Own Se
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 01-18-2007 - 8:53pm

A penis ring with a clit stimulator attached.



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Registered: 10-18-2001
Fri, 01-19-2007 - 12:35am

I think that you're asking for something that's not possible - cordless yet strong, strong yet quiet, small yet strong. Like tish suggested the penis ring with vibe on it *might* work but we've got one and the results are unpredictable. Our one uses a couple of small button batteries and while it's good and we enjoy it from time to time, I'm not sure that it'd do it for you. I think that you can get them with cords and they are probably more powerful. Could be worth looking into?

Only other thing I can suggest is the Laya. A palm-sized and shaped thing that is quite powerful and is larger but it can be used during intercourse.

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Fri, 01-19-2007 - 6:16am

I have to agree with the unpredictable penis ring with vibrator. We tried the Trojan vibration ring, hardly a buzz for me altho hubby thought the sensation was "nice" but not quite what we were looking for. ;-)
And we have a bigger one but the bullets are almost too big plus it is wired and they get in the way.
I will look into the Laya. I did see that on some toy website somewhere and was wondering about it. I'll keep you posted.

I wonder if anyone else has other suggestions. I feel like a prima dona looking for the magic toy! I am just frustrated I guess because I had to send my Hitachi wand back after 3 uses, it died. I am waiting for a replacement, LOL.



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Registered: 04-27-2005
Fri, 01-19-2007 - 7:21pm
DW and I are successful using a silver bullet during intercourse. We found one on ebay that takes 3 AA batteries and is very strong. Granted, it has a wire, but that doesn't seem to get in the way. Plus, I get to control the speed. :-) The bullet is small enough and powerful enough to make her happy. The best positions for us using it are doggy and woman on top. Good luck!
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Registered: 12-19-2006
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 9:13am
Recently we got a vibe that is long & slender, curved at the top -- similar to a g-spot vibe but designed for the clitoris. It came from drugstore dot com and it is called a love spoon (or love scoop). We have had great success using it for clitoral stimulation with or without intercourse, and it also works great on the g-spot. It uses 2 AAA batteries, lasts a long time, and has a pretty strong vibe. Cost was very reasonable, under $15.