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| Mon, 08-11-2008 - 11:22am |
Can anyone tell me why so many girls and women are showing their genitals spread open on the net? Porn used to be just topless. Now it's genitals spread open - and not always for money - many girls willingly upload their genitalia pictures on their own. Why do so many girls do this these days? Why don't they just show their breasts if they want to be publicly risqué. Why genitals spread open? Isn't that just waaaay too personal? Breasts I can possibly understand because of the curvy beauty of them, but spread open genitals? Breasts and butts are artistic but why do women show their butt holes and spread open genitals? Are they the new art?

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When it comes to sexuality the worst thing you can be is judgmental.
DD
If there wasn't a demand, there wouldn't be a supply. The sites that show women's genitals in various poses are generally sites for which you have to go looking. Therefore, if they upset you, go elsewhere. If you should happen upon one inadvertently then just hit the back arrow (Firefox or Internet Explorer).
Call me a homophobe, but I don't find the sight of exposed male genitalia at all exciting. On the other hand I RARELY run across it by random chance, and when I do, I just navigate to another site (maybe even one with female genitalia wide open) in a matter of seconds.
There are myriad reasons why people expose themselves, so trying to explain the action leads to very generalized categories. The motivation probably isn't so important, and the fact of the matter is that this is not going to disappear anytime soon. The really good news is that nobody forces you to watch.
First off, I think this is a huge fantasy for men, thus the flicks are filling that. For most men, there's nothing sexier then being with a woman who is really into what is going on. For women who really get into what's going on, having facials can be a hot fantasy (or event) for them too.
There's also the element for degradation that gets some people off. There are all sorts of fetishes, that unless you enjoy them yourself, can be difficult to understand. The factor of dominance is something that drives many people, sexually.
Personally, I do think facials are hot -- but they're not something I would want to participate in on a regular basis. I find some sex acts are best reserved for extra hot encounters -- if every encounter was extra hot, they would become boring.
I think you're view of facials also connects to how you feel about other things .... like watching a guy masturbate, or seeing him ejaculate, or feeling ejaculate. The entire tease and act that leads up to him cumming on you, and feeling like you "made" that happen by whatever means (oral, dirty talk, putting on a show, etc.).
While this isn't a conclusive poll, I started this. You might be able to get an idea from it how different people feel about facials.
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