Need ideas to last longer!!
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| Sat, 04-23-2005 - 3:22pm |
I've been having really wonderful sex with my boyfriend for about a month now -- I think he's an amazing, and I love it! The "problem," I guess, is that we both wish that he could last longer, especially the first time we have sex that night. We'll go for about ten or fifteen minutes usually, but he'll frequently have to pull out, stop, or slow down (a la Masters & Johnson, except not quite that disciplined ...) For him, stop-and-go sex is a bit anticlimactic, and for me ... well, it's not at all.
I've read advice about stopping & starting (which we're doing, but don't love), positions to avoid (man on top, doggie style) and even desensitizing creams, which don't sound so nice.
What personal thoughts can you all share? We're both 20, and I'm the first person he has had sex with. Will experience & time help him last longer? We would both appreciate your wisdom.

very experienced Patrick
Thank you for that, Patrick!
Ellen