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Need input about penises
| Mon, 05-01-2006 - 10:08am |
A couple of questions about penises...
1. Do y'all think that a penis has to be LONG to be considered BIG? It seems that most people equate a BIG penis with a LONG penis and I just wanted to know who agrees with that? Is a penis ever considered BIG if it is short, but thick?
2. In your opinion, at what LENGTH (in inches) would YOU consider a penis to be small, average, big and huge? If you're not good at estimating size then please grab a ruler.

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Why do so many people on these boards post replies that have absolutely nothing to do with the original question? It's a waste of time to have to scroll thru useless posts that have nothing to do with the original topic!
1. Yes, I think a penis needs to be somewhat above average to be considered big. At least 7 inches.
2. Small - less than 5"
Average - 5-7"
Big - 7-9"
Huge - 9+"
Doesn't always hit bottom....just sort of stops way before the bottom(if it's girthy taht is). As far as the lock jaw and gagging....girth is girth, whether it's on a 12" or a 5" penis, and unless you have a three or four inch penis(not sure of the depth to the gag reflex) you will gag if you try to take more than you can handle; and yes, a 7"er may be able to accomplish legs-closed intercourse, but just how much gets penetrated--it's a few inches down just to the opening(particularly on an angle)? Reaching a bit there, Hump? ;-)
Edited 5/1/2006 9:18 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
Reaching a bit there, Hump? ;-)
I`ll take my size anyday over huge tyvm.....lol Well we were talking huge, in my book huge would be 9" plus with over 6" girth..huge might mean something different to another..You are right, if a guy has some self control he can stop before hitting bottom, but then there is the ocational slip as he is getting close, or the guy who wants to put it all in...lol As for depth of penetration that only matters to those it matters to.I`ve found Im too long for some and if a woman needs her tonsils tickled , then I`m too short for her. Honestly, girth is a problem for some women who have a really small opening, more so than length..Some women are so tight , no matter how much they are turned on ,or with lube, 6" girth is just uncomfortable for them..then there are women that girth is never a factor.;) Personally I like the fact that no matter how hard or deep I thrust with DW I never have to be careful about hitting bottom.. Her 9" college lover made her dread the anticipation of the inevitable "slip to the bottom" The cul de sac may be nirvana for some, but it doesnt exist for others. Im wondering how many women can actually take in the entire 9" penis, not many Im guessing. Women have told me if he is too long they cant really grind effectively because they couldnt get him all the way in.
"tyvm" ??? Clueless about what that stands for.
Hump, I know that we all constantly hear about the benefits of "average," and we all try and console the "less than average" men out there, but it just seems that the "biggies" get a bad rap--they always seem to get knocked. It may be a subconscious thing that people do because they feel that they(the fortunate) have it "all" ;-); and I know that there are some people who are arrogant about their "endowment," but there are very good men out there who aren't, and who happen to be huge. I always answer the "penis size question" in the same manner: "It doesn't matter, because the man is all that matters." That goes for "all" sized men. I know it's not meant to be, but the comments sort of sound like "catty" women when a beautiful woman just enterered the room.
No matter what you can and can't do with a huge penis, it comes packaged with some men...and just like you do with a very small penis--you work with it. I just don't see why the "biggies" always seem to get "bashed." They have feelings too.... ;-)
Edited 5/2/2006 9:23 am ET by rain_dancer_iam
tyvm = Thank you very much..lol
I didnt mean to bash men with big penises, that would make me sound jealous.. I`m not bashing them, most really big guys know the pluses and minuses that go with being large. Of course its the man that matters most.I guess my point is that there are good fits sexually and not so good fits...That doesnt mean the situation cant be worked around, or that good sex wont happen.In a situation where it is "just sex" an immediate good fit makes for the best sessions. In a relationship where time and commitment exists, a couple has time for experimentation and adjustment to make it work well for them.
We sometimes hear that first time or even one time sex normally isnt all that great...Based on my personal experience from long ago, that was normally true if the fit just wasnt right.. I either had to be extra careful from hurting her (too deep or too tight)That wasnt much fun, or if the fit was right then we both seemed to really enjoy the experience more.
Lets face it, some women can handle a really large penis and some cant...If there are women who had a tough time with me (somewhat over ave.) then they would really have a tough time with a guy who was really large.. If they have fallen in love, I`m sure there are ways to get around the fit problem with communication and experimentation.
On a one night stand, for some the right size might mean everything, but in a loving relationship, size means a lot less.. There, do you think we kind of agree?
"I either had to be extra careful from hurting her (too deep or too tight)That wasnt much fun,..."
How would a small guy feel if a woman said that it wasn't much fun? Well endowed guys know that they have to be careful....and sometimes they don't even have to be. Sometimes, it just stops on it's own accord and never hits bottom. He's just so big, it only goes so far....so she may not be taking all of him in, but he doesn't have to be careful either.
"Lets face it, some women can handle a really large penis and some cant...If there are women who had a tough time with me (somewhat over ave.) then they would really have a tough time with a guy who was really large.."
Any man that size knows how to use it. He's not going to force himself on her, he's aware that he's huge. You can also find positions that work. Closed-legged intercourse is one of them. It's very stimulating for both parties particuarly for women, because it stimulates her clitoris and vulva extensively. If the biggest draw-back is him not fully inserting, so-be-it...it's not the worst thing in the world--ONS or not. I'm sure he doesn't expect too many women to be able to accommodate him.
"On a one night stand, for some the right size might mean everything, but in a loving relationship, size means a lot less.. There, do you think we kind of agree?"
Well...I think that being a "responsible" lover means everything...as long as he's careful and not a selfish heel. Also, she can just take control of the reins so that she is comfortable(woman on top), and they can still utilize positions like closed-legged intercourse, where it's not even an issue.
BTW, neither I nor my husband get anything out of grinding(you mentioned this as a plus in your last post) while I'm on top....I'm more of a rocker(sliding back and forth using my hips) or I lean forward and glide back on and off of him(you can do this with a well endowed man without him falling out). The clitoris usually gets stimulated by the penis/shaft if I position myself right. I often take myself completely out of him and grind on the whole penis(another plus for a well-endowed man). Also, during missionary a man can just adjust his hips slightly so that shaft rubs the clitoris....so grinding is not necessary.
I wasn't disagreeing, I was just pointing out something that I've observed here(not just from you, but others as well) and felt it was just a good time to say something. ;-)
Edited 5/2/2006 10:46 am ET by rain_dancer_iam
It just happens.
Im sure there are some women who have felt that way,(about a small guy) but never said it to the guy, hopefully no one is that cruel. My wife can tell you that some guys are not careful with their size, and think all they need to do is ram it in.. There are all kinds, including considerate and not so considerate.
Maybe the closed leg technique works for you, but it might not work for others.Some women use that technique for smaller guys to increase friction.
<Of course great sex doesnt always mean intercourse either, but in many cases a ONS means just that.Most younger women and men who are doing ONS`s are not that experienced with ill fitting genitals, and may have difficulty with the act.
Personally the majority of people I had been with fit fine, I wasnt too big or too little, there were a couple on both ends of the scale where it did dampen the fun a little.
Again, who really cares on a one night stand? Nothing really matters, its pretty much a physical thing.. Relationships can learn to work around size, one way or the other.
While most people are about the same size (men and women)there are some differences in the extremes to be sure, but that doesnt mean they will matter TOO much in a good relationship.
It's like Kelly LeBrock said "Don't hate me, because I'm beautiful." There are some very good, considerate, responsible men who happen to be well-endowed--we have to give them well-deserved love too. ;-)
(P.S. re-read my last post, I updated it probably while you were writing yours)
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