Need input about penises

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Need input about penises
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Mon, 05-01-2006 - 10:08am

A couple of questions about penises...

1. Do y'all think that a penis has to be LONG to be considered BIG? It seems that most people equate a BIG penis with a LONG penis and I just wanted to know who agrees with that? Is a penis ever considered BIG if it is short, but thick?

2. In your opinion, at what LENGTH (in inches) would YOU consider a penis to be small, average, big and huge? If you're not good at estimating size then please grab a ruler.

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Tue, 05-02-2006 - 6:20pm
Yes, why not just bypass those posts that aren't addressed to the original poster? Seems simple enough to me.
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Tue, 05-02-2006 - 8:33pm

"penis(to some women) is DIRECTLY related to sexual satisfaction for a woman,"

Sorry, Humpdaddy, I'm going to have to agree with Rain Dancer on this one. I don't think there's that much correlation between sexual satisfaction, at least in the form of orgasm, and penis size. Most women don't orgasm from penetration anyway and I really doubt that size is much of a factor, and I don't think that women are any more likely to orgasm with a large penis than an average one ( a really small one might be a different story). I know in DW's case she never orgasmed with her ex (large), but she always does with me (average).

taoist

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Tue, 05-02-2006 - 9:21pm

<<original question!>>>


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Tue, 05-02-2006 - 9:57pm
Sorry tao, but I said "some " women, and I`m sure one could find "some" women who would disagree with you. To "some" women size IS the difference to "them" I didnt say all.. Remember I said preception is reality..thays why I said many men feel this IS the case , hense their misguided insecurity. I agree with you , that for most women size is not the main ingredient for sexual satisfaction. I agree that most women are not orgasmic thru intercourse alone. My wife too had a college lover who was very large, not only did she not orgasm, it was, for the most part not very pleasurable.
btw an average sized man normally cant reach the infamous "cul de sac" which "some" women claim triggers their orgasm. We are all different, and vast generalizations wont work..that is why Ive said most of the things I said here with prefaces.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 10:08pm
tish I agree with you to a point, but then again you are one person with your own experience, where other people may disagree with you based on their own experience.The fact that we all have slighly different anatomies means some of us will also react differently to similar stimui.Some women orgasm from intercourse, some dont. Its not necessarily the talent of the lover, but the individuals anatomy.Some women have awesome g spot experiences, where others do not. Some women need a lot of clitoral stimulation where others cant stand to have it even touched... Normal may be what the majority experience, but there are so many other different experiences that normal is what is normal for each individual. For someone to say that penis size has no bearing at all to some womens sexual experience is just not true.. It is important to some women, but by no means all women.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 05-03-2006 - 7:58am

<<<For someone to say that penis size has no bearing at all to some womens sexual experience is just not true>>>


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Wed, 05-03-2006 - 9:43am
Tish, I wasnt referring to your post only, Tao`s post made the referrence to penis size not mattering, sorry for the confusion.
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Thu, 05-04-2006 - 1:44pm
opp i addressed this to the wrong person


Edited 5/4/2006 1:55 pm ET by dr_blar
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Thu, 05-04-2006 - 1:56pm

"Well endowed" is usually meant to imply the bigger is better thought. i guess this is why people use the word "endowed" instead.

Yes breast size and penis size are two different things. First off girls can see the sizes of other girls as well as see that they are involved in relationships with guys. While on the other hand guys are not able to see this. Guys just follow what others say....for example on message boards you will see a whole lot of women claim that their SOs are 8+ inches and provide godly pleasure to them and this in turn makes guys believe you need that in order to please a girl even though statistics prove that 95% or more of these women are lying about the their SO being that size.

Another thing is the fact that breast size can be changed the penis cannot. i can almost guarantee that if their was an actual working surgery that could increase a mans size you would hardly see guys worrying about what they have. Just the fact of knowing you can change something if you want can change things.

And I used to remember you saying size didn’t matter etc etc and now I am seeing you say the advantages that a larger penis has over a smaller one….my my how people change

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Thu, 05-04-2006 - 2:58pm

"Well endowed" is usually meant to imply the bigger is better thought. i guess this is why people use the word "endowed" instead."

Instead of what? Well-hung? ;-) For me, it never implied "better" than, just "more of." Endowed, just means "equipped with" so using the term "well-endowed" would mean well-equipped.

However, I doubt that I'll use the term again.....I can just say "well-(help me out here)."

"Yes breast size and penis size are two different things. First off girls can see the sizes of other girls as well as see that they are involved in relationships with guys. While on the other hand guys are not able to see this. Guys just follow what others say....for example on message boards you will see a whole lot of women claim that their SOs are 8+ inches and provide godly pleasure to them and this in turn makes guys believe you need that in order to please a girl even though statistics prove that 95% or more of these women are lying about the their SO being that size."

How does that change anything? Any one of those men may not be "breast" men, as Hump pointed out. They may be with her because of her legs or her behind, or face.

Isn't that contradictory? If you know that women lie, then why believe it? Incidentally, I'm not lying. My first boyfriend(over 30 years ago) was very large. I had a couple in between that were average, and then I met my husband who is 8".

"Another thing is the fact that breast size can be changed the penis cannot. i can almost guarantee that if their was an actual working surgery that could increase a mans size you would hardly see guys worrying about what they have. Just the fact of knowing you can change something if you want can change things."

It's not that simple. Surgery is surgery; there are many complications as well as long-term side-effects(e.g. interference with mammograms). It's risky. Not many women want to go under the knife. And besides....what exactly will that accomplish? If a man would rule a woman out based on the size of her breasts, why would she want him? Same with penis size.

"And I used to remember you saying size didn’t matter etc etc and now I am seeing you say the advantages that a larger penis has over a smaller one….my my how people change"

I haven't changed. If you read all of my posts in this thread, you'll see that I stated that clearly "Size doesn't matter" but that includes large or huge penises, as well. What I find(not only in this thread, but in the past), is that people "knock" the larger men(not intentionally, most likely), and I just do not think that it's fair. There are many good men out there who happen to be large or very large--do you think that they like reading all of the "bad" things about them? That's all, really.

(I almost typed well-(well...you know) in that last paragraph, but....I was good! ;-)




Edited 5/4/2006 4:51 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
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