Need new strip tease stratagies & music

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Registered: 08-04-2004
Need new strip tease stratagies & music
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Sat, 08-14-2004 - 4:13am
Recently, I have discovered that my boyfriend loves me to dance like a stripper for him. I have always been into trying new things sexually to make sex interesting and not dull. I like having sex and exploring new horizions with my bf. However, I have always wanted to dance for him and do the whole show (but felt a bit shy) until recently; and I just let it go and his jaw hit the floor. He is a major horn dog and loves sex and freaky stuff. I was just wondering if anyone had any interesting ideas on some new techniques or ideas as far as dancing/stripping goes. I also want to know what some good music would be appropriate. I danced/stripped to Madonna's "Erotica" it was the first time and I don't want it to be the last time. I would like some feedback on this subject and I am open to anything! Please give me some ideas! Thanks!
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sat, 08-14-2004 - 5:30pm
Hi surgicalwiz!

Tactics that get ME going regarding my wife are:

1) Keep direct eye contact and don't ever be shy about it. The "I want you" gaze never fails. LOL!

2) Naughty music always works for others, but I'm more old fashioned and am into the big band music that some of those Vegas style shows use. Guess I'm more of the Marilyn Monroe music type, lol.

3) As I mentioned on another string like this one not too long ago, load up on the make-up and the perfume. Really make a flashy show of it that focuses on everything and not just the bare body.

4) Slowly involve, um, your "audience" (LOL!) more and more and more as the dance goes on by teasing him with flirty touches of his clothes and eventually undressing him as you continue dancing around some more and then eventually caressing him and so on, all this while you're still dancing around.

Hope these help at least a little, LOL! She gets them to work on me, thats for sure.

;P

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Registered: 08-25-2004
Wed, 08-25-2004 - 5:42pm
I love doing this, it makes him want you sooo bad....mmm i love it!! But if I were you, I would get Carmen Electra's video. She teaches you how to do this exact thing, and seeing how HOT she is, I'm sure she can teach you a thing or two! Good luck!!
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Registered: 08-25-2004
Wed, 08-25-2004 - 5:45pm
Here is the website: www.aerobicstriptease.com
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Registered: 05-21-2004
Wed, 08-25-2004 - 9:31pm
OOOh fun!

i just recently did my very first strip tease and it was SUCH a high..so awesome my BF couldn't resist touching himself as i did my thing cuz it was sooo hot.

here's some tips:

wear lots of layers so if you can spend lots of time slowly taking one layer off at a time. (i used super sexy lingerie, one of his executivey work button down shirts, a trench coat, totally hot SUPER high heels, a hat and a scarf!)

Use that scarf to pull him toward you, push him away, tie him up, even blindfold him later once all the clothes are off!

i put a chair at the foot of the bed. so i started with him sitting on the bed and kind of dancing around the chair as i lost the layers. once i was in my skivvies, i put him in the chair and gave a 'no touching' lap dance. of course he couldn't resist a touch, so he got VERY light slaps!

then i put him back on the bed and i sat in the chair to give him a little show of me touching myself with my feet (heels still on) resting on his legs!

by then you'll both be so ready you will need to do it!

music?

Garbage, "SuperVixon" **an ABSOLUTE must. the chorus says 'bow down to me'. it will help boost your confidence if you feel a little silly at first!

PRince, "cream" (but there's lots of prince choices)

Madonna, "Candy Perfume Girl" (as you stated, madonnas got lots of choices)

Christina Aguilera, "Get mine, Get yours" (she has a few choices too!)

ANYTHING by Depeche Mode!!

hope this has inspired you!!!! my BEST advice (since i was SOOO nervous i almost chickened out at the last minute) is to absolutely KNOW he will love WHATEVER you do!! if you goof up, just giggle and move on! and actually, this will probably make me seem like a huge dork, but i actually kinda practiced some of the maneuvers i wanted to do (like on the chair and stuff)- it gave me more confidence!!

HAVE FUN!! you'll love it!

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