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| Mon, 07-24-2006 - 7:27pm |
My boyfriend and I have been dating a year and a half and a few months ago had sex for the first time. We were both virgins. It has been really great and we are both loving it, but I SUCK at being on top! I need some advice! I just can't seem to figure it out.

Ok, first of all, you don't try to bounce up and down....that's what HE does when he's on top. Let him take care of the thrusting when he's on top.
Second, do not squat on your heels.....your legs can't take it and will get tired in minutes. Kneel.....straddling him.....and insert him into you. Get yourself comfortable, balance yourself if necessary by putting your hands on your thighs, and then you slowly rotate your hips while you grind into him. HE doesn't move. You do all the moving....just move your hips in a circular motion, or thrust them back and forth a little. He should just lie there, and enjoy watching you, or use his hands to touch you or caress you.
The more you do it the easier it gets....it's like anything else new, you have to work at it for a while. Like riding a bike.....you didn't just get on and ride, you had to practice slowly for a while while you wobbled, or even fell off it......and eventually, you just got on it and rode without any thought of balancing yourself.