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| Sun, 09-11-2005 - 7:48pm |
So, for the next few days, me and my boyfriend are at his parents house. Well, last night we ended fooling around in his room that night, and what not, until his parents walked in on use having sex. Well, we both got freaked out, that his parents just closed the door and just walked away. While me and my boyfriend just stopped and I just told him that he needed to invest in a lock for his door after that we didnt talk until today. Well, now heres where I need some adivce, how do we tell his parents that we want to get married without brining up what they saw?

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I have a son who's 18 and we have most of the same rules, but just because he turned 18 doesn't mean I'm ok with the sex thing going on in my house. I'm pretty sure they had sex for the first time this past spring, after the Prom (I saw a text message on a cell I thought was mine and I could tell by the way they were acting) and I'm ok with that, they're both 18, they're good kids. But I'm just not having coed sleepovers and I'm not comfortable with him walking his GF up the stairs so we can listen to the bed thumping overhead as we watch TV. While he works PT, we're still supporting him and paying his college tuition. He may legally be an adult, but he's not an independent, self supporting one and so our rules still apply. I'm sure the deed has been done here when we've been gone for the day and I won't pry or say anything, but he's just going to have to deal with our rules while he's still dependent on us. He's a good kid and doesn't chafe at the rules, he just knows that's the way it is.
Plus, I don't really want that example set for his younger brother and I still have to think about him and what he's seeing and picking up at his adolescent age. It's just not ok to bring girls home just to have sex!
>>When girls no longer have cooties. LOL<<
I was babysitting the nephew (6yo) and niece(10yo) last week. I made the mistake of cooking crumbed sausages, spuds and veggies one night.
"Waaaaah! Ha! Ha!" announces nephew when he sees his dinner, "A willie! We've got willies for dinner!"
"They're not willies", I say.
"OK," he says, "We've got penises for dinner! HA!"
"Trust me", I say, "If your penis looks scabby like that then you're in bigger trouble than I can help you with."
That stopped him for a moment.
He starts waving his sausage at his sister as she waves hers at him.
"Oh! Shes waggling her willie at me!" he informs me.
"Don't be silly," his sister crossly tells him, "Girls don't have willies!"
"That's right. They have VA-GIN-AS!!!!!!" he tells us.
I'm starting to go blank here....
"Alright. Sit down. Shut up. And eat your sausages. This isn't polite conversation for the dinner table, thank you. It's good that you know what a penis and a vagina is, but people don't want to talk about it while they're trying to have dinner. If you want to talk about body parts, you can do it after dinner."
He stares at me for a moment, then digs into dinner. Moments later he holds a boiled potato proudly aloft. The potato has a crescent shaped groove cut deeply into it.
"My vagina!" he says proudly.....
Aren't kids are a joy?
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