Need Some Good Opinions!

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Registered: 10-30-2003
Need Some Good Opinions!
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Tue, 08-29-2006 - 11:09pm
Alright girls, I need some advice. My bf likes...ok, lets face it, he LOVES oral sex, and for the most part, I dont mind giving it to him whenever he wants it. I vary my technique a bit here and there, and we always finish with him ejaculating pretty much where ever he wants (including on me, from the neck down at least). However lately, he's been hinting to me that he would like it if I would let him ejaculate in my mouth. It happened once before, and quite by accident, a year or more ago - I didnt realize he was going to come, and when he started to, I figured what the heck, didnt move, and let him do it in my mouth. So apparently he's been harboring the desire for me to do it again all this time and is just now bringing it up. The problem is, I didnt like it AT ALL. The taste wasnt spectacular (which I didnt really expect it to be - dont get me wrong), but just the feeling of it shooting in my mouth just really kind of grossed me out. I didnt gag, but had it lasted any longer than it did, I probably would have. Now, just the thought of it kind of makes me cringe, and I would try it now except I'm afraid that I would gag or have another bad reaction and totally ruin the experience for him. So does anyone have any advice on how I can go about this? I would try, but honestly, I dont want to do it, then two seconds later, start hurling everything back up on him b/c I cant handle it. Any suggestions on how to go about it slowly, or to try something to appease him in such a way w/o having to do that? I want to please him, but I'm just not sure I can do it... help.
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Registered: 01-03-2004
Tue, 08-29-2006 - 11:29pm

my hubby loves oral as well and we tried everything different positions different places and i would still gag. taking it all in my mouth and then just the taste was just not doing it for me so finally we tried some of the flavored jelly and i would rub it around lick it get the taste of the jelly in my mouth so that when he was ready to come i had the taste of the jelly in my mouth instead of the cum. now that i can finally swallow he likes it constantly the only sad part is i get so into it after he is done i want to keep going and he wants to stop hehehe anyways hope that helps.

ginger

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Registered: 08-24-2006
Wed, 08-30-2006 - 9:36am
I feel the exact same way. Its not so much the taste that bothers me, but the consistancy of my H cum. We have been married almost 15yrs and oral sex has always been a part of our sex life. However it has only been within the last year that I have let him cum in my mouth. And that has only been exactly 4 times. He has always been very gentleman like about it and ALWAYS tells me when he is about to cum, therefore leaving the decision up to me whether I want him to finish in my mouth or somewhere else. I found that when he comes in my mouth if I just let it sort of spill out and run down him while I am using my hands to rub him its not so bad. Also, if you let him come in your cheek, rather than right on your tongue or down your throat, that way isnt so bad either.
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Registered: 10-30-2003
Wed, 08-30-2006 - 11:23pm

Yes eagertoplease! The consistancy is mainly what gets me too.

Those are some pretty good ideas you guys. Thanks. I'm always open to more :)