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| Sat, 03-18-2006 - 10:20am |
A couple days ago me and my man did it and we were protecting ourselfs. it was two days after my period which made it easier on us. He did put on a condom which i think was latex and when we started i was rather dry but we still continued b/c i thought i would get wet eventually. After he came and pulled out there was blood on the tip of it which i think means he broke the rest of my hymen since it was never fully broken the first time. Im not sure if it was the hymen or of it was just irritated to cause me to bleed from being dry. He said nothing came out and it didnt break which i believe since i looked at it and i aint see nothing wrong. But when i got home and used the bathroom there was alot more blood then i thought. Now all of a sudden my stomach been hurting me like crazy and i been having gas and i dont know what that means. I know that you cant experience any type of symptoms this early, but is there any way anything can come through the condom while your doing it or am i just being paranoid and stressing to feel these symptoms???
Edited 3/18/2006 11:33 am ET by nicole_blue726
Edited 3/18/2006 1:39 pm ET by nicole_blue726

How do you know your hymen was never fully broken?
Forgone conclusion that you should really call your doc and find out if the symptoms are worth going in to get checked out. Always play it safe, no matter how much we may know on a sex board.
Although condoms are so highly praised for what they can help protect from, no manufacturer to my knowledge has announced condoms as 100% protective. In fact, the common term I remember hearing about condoms is that they are , as opposed to being as though it were 100%.
This is part of the reason that many parents and concerned citizens are urging abstinence more and more, because inadequately educated teens AND adults are lured into thinking that condoms are answer. This piece of info as a reminder to those reading this, not meant to scare you. In fact...
Mrs. Para & I agree with Tish that pregnancy symptoms aren't something you should be noticing after only a few days from intercourse. Can't really tell you if its your hymen that was the issue or if it was some irritation caused by the intercourse or what. I still say call your doc and play it safe--ALWAYS play it safe, even if you ever feel that a message board has the answer for you. Just my view on it. Good luck to you.
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There are no symptoms of pregnancy that start within a day of getting pregnant. Even if there were, a pain in the stomach and gas are not symptoms of pregnancy. They're usually the result of eating certain foods, particularly the gas. The pain might be, as someone else stated, simply from using muscles that you don't normally use.
The bleeding was probably from being dry, tearing the vaginal tissues. If it goes away in a day, then don't worry about it. If it continues, call the doctor. Buy some lubricant, and use it, because being dry can cause a condom to break.
Within a week or so, you can get an early pregnancy test, and find out for sure.