Needing something new ...

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Registered: 12-26-2004
Needing something new ...
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Sun, 12-26-2004 - 6:11pm
I posted the same issue on another message board about wanting to try something new in terms of bedtime entertainment. My current guy wants to do something we have never done before and I can't come up with anything due to my lack of expierence (when it comes to being creative) We talked about our boundaries and what we just wont do ... but I still can't think of anything. I am up for practically anything so any advice on how I can completely throw him for a loop would be wonderful. Thanks.
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sun, 12-26-2004 - 8:52pm

Some ideas of things that you haven't done before? A good start would be if you tell us first what you *have* done before LOL.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 12-26-2004 - 11:28pm
Well, hey, if HE's the one that wants something new, then let HIM come up with it. Why should it be your job?
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Registered: 12-21-2004
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 4:18pm
You could try handcuffing him to the bed or blindfolding him and having your way with him.
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Registered: 12-28-2004
Tue, 12-28-2004 - 6:29am

Try the countdown.

It's a little bit of foreplay which is rather nice. I picked it up off late night TV but it works. (First words out of my mans mouth were where did you learn that???)

What you need two hands and a little lube.
What you do. Stroke the penis downwards nine times.
Stroke the penis upwards nine times
Stoke the penis downwards eight times
etc and count down until you get the hint until you reach one.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Tue, 12-28-2004 - 10:33am

-you could try a new position... if you don't do it in a lot of different ways, you should go it doggy-style because that's one hell of an eyeful for him, otherwise there are bunches of different positions you can do it in that you probably haven't done... just look online... http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com is my personal favorite because the guy that set it up uses dolls to illustrate. hilarious. or you could get it on in the shower... if you've never done that before, the first time is most certainly interesting.

-food during sex is good, like whipped cream, or if you want to get really fancy, you could use honey dust (which really i shouldn't be commenting on, because i just heard about it for the first time on another message board but it sounds like good stuff) or edible body paint.

-handcuffs and blindfolds are good. so is ice. hot wax is pretty exciting but i fully understand it is DEFINITELY not for everyone.

-dress up for him?

there are so many things you could do, but someone else said something really good, and that is that if it's his idea, make him come up with something! but if he won't... hopefully you can start with these.