Needs some advice about the hubby

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Registered: 11-15-2004
Needs some advice about the hubby
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Wed, 11-30-2005 - 2:34pm
My husband and I will be married 4 years this February, when we first got married I could not get the man to keep his hands off of me. He was your steriotypical horny Marine. When I got pregant things died down because he was afriad he hurt me or our son while I was pregnant. After we got the ok from the OB to have sex again, my horny marine was back. He got recalled into the Marine Corps and I found out I was pregnant again when our first son turned 6 months old, when he came home on leave there was no sex I was high risk and almost lost our son while the hubby was away. He comes home when our son turned 2 months old. Horny Marine is back even when he was working as a waiter. He gets this new job with a big name soda company working all these long hours, and its been over a month since we have had sex. Now I have tried EVERYTHING that I own in my sales kit since I am a Passion Parties Consultant, and I have replaced his vitamins with the Pure Satisfaction®UniSEX Enhancement Tablet to help get him in the mood. I let him nap when he gets home, I have done everything I can think of right at moment. What makes me feel bad is here I am selling stuff to people who come back wanting more stuff because I have helped their marriage or relationship out with buy selling them dildos, vibrators, lubes, etc to them, and I cant even get my husband to get a hard on because he is too tired during the week and weekends. HELP!!!!!!
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 3:03pm

You changed his vitamins for some crazy "enhancement" pills? Does he know that? Sorry, but you may sell the stuff, but you can't "enhance" what isn't there. Even Viagra doesn't work if the man isn't "in the mood"!

I think the most important thing you can do is to TALK to him. Find out WHY he's so tired, find out WHY he's avoiding you. Communication will get you a lot further a lot faster than feeding him pills! Maybe he needs a good physical, to make sure he's healthy. Maybe he's stressed out from work, with his long hours, and pressures that you might not even know about. Let him know how YOU feel, and try to work out some kind of schedule so that he can be rested & relaxed once in a while.

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Registered: 08-16-2005
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 3:18pm
I agree you need to talk to him. tell him that you understand that he is tired ( that is if you understand if not talk to him about that too) and you need some intmancy... ask him to take a weekend off... to actually get away from his job for just a weekend and don't press him into sex just wait the first day... he might just need the break himself. Hope this helps
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 4:39pm

You need to talk to him, not give him some kind of sexual enhancement tablet.


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