Never orgasmed during sex. I need help.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Never orgasmed during sex. I need help.
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Wed, 03-21-2007 - 6:59am
Ive never had an orgasm during sex. I've masturbated, but its in a way that I cant get my partner to help. In the past none of my partners cared if I orgasmed. but now my current partner does and I feel the pressure to orgasm but I dont know how.

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Sat, 03-24-2007 - 10:40am

You probably aren't doing anything "wrong" with your hands. You can't expect instantaneous results. It's going to take time and practice. It isn't just a matter of applying a particular physical technique and, "Bingo! Orgasm!". This is especially true with a partner. With DW , it took time and practice and feedback from her to get to where we are now. Now she is certain that I know exactly how to stimulate her and she gives me feedback when she needs some variation. So she has multiple orgasms easily every time.

taoist

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