New to anal

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Registered: 03-15-2006
New to anal
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Wed, 05-31-2006 - 12:39pm

Hey everyone!

For the first time me and my fiancee tried anal last night. We had both always wanted to try it, however I was always very scared for a couple reasons, one being pain.

We used TONS of lube, lol, and he went very slow. Luckily, the pain was not at all what I expected and really didn't hurt at all.

We took it slow as I am still getting used to it.

There is only one problem for me. Sorry, this may sound kind of gross but I Don't know how else to put it! When we are engaging in the act I feel like I need to or am going to have a bowel movement! Luckily I didn't and I enjoyed it other then this feeling I got.

My question is I guess, does this feeling go away the more you do it or is there a reason it is there? I went to the bathroom and showered prior to that so I didn't have to go but then felt like I did during it.

Sorry if any of it sounds gross, just looking for some input!

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Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: cutiebatooty
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 1:32pm
As basic as I understand it,...your rectum has two sphincters sort of.
The inside one "feels" pressure from fecal matter pressing on it, thereby giving you the feeling that you need to go. What is happening is that inside "sensor" is feeling the pressure of his penis and sending the"I have to go" signal to the brain.
You said you had emptied yourself before hand, so the signal is a false one.
As long as you practice the way you did, there should be no accidents.
I don't know if that feeling will go away or you will get used to it.
I wish I did know, but I haven't have the pleasure of being taken anally.
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Registered: 03-15-2006
In reply to: cutiebatooty
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 1:56pm

Hey!

Thank you for your response!

It may have just seemed extra uncomfortable to me being as it was my first time.

I have always been curious about it, just scared to do it. I am defintly glad it is with my fiancee!

I know we will defintly continue with it, I just hope that feeling of a movement coming on goes away! lol!

Thanks for taking time out to reply!

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Registered: 07-02-2005
In reply to: cutiebatooty
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 9:03pm
I feel like that too a lot when me and DH have anal sex. I read it's normal and you feel like you have to poop, but you won't. :)
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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: cutiebatooty
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 10:02pm

Hi,

That feeling will go away the more you do it. It takes some time but with more experience and maybe some anal play, it will be more relaxing.

Good luck,
mb