New and Exciting...

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Registered: 04-24-2008
New and Exciting...
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 4:01pm

I have to say this is something that I

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Registered: 01-28-2004
Thu, 04-24-2008 - 4:20pm
i use to be like this too. Start off slow. When he does something tell him you like it or a little more this way. Then maybe say oh this would feel good, or try it this way. When you are in casual talk outside the bed room, offer up a quick opinion that wont cause major in depth talk and see how he takes it. Dont do it all at once though, just a little bit at a time. You will be shooting out those commits in no time. Best of luck
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 5:59pm

Thank you for your advice...


I have thought about what you have suggested. I just want to find out small little ideas to do to work my way up to even that point. Like someone else said put a small note in his truck and on that right a blurb about the night before we have spent together... what do you think about that... so it does not have to just right into and be verbal...


Thanx


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Registered: 01-28-2004
Thu, 04-24-2008 - 6:09pm
oh that works too. You can slide a note to him in his car for him to read on the way to work. I would offer maybe a quick text on the cell. That is always fun to go back and forth sometimes. It easy to write it than speak it. so going back and forth a little all day for something to work up to. I would also offer maybe a note in his pockets if you can figure a way to do that. There are so many places you can put notes for him to find. But its a great idea. And a great way to lead toward a fun evening if desired.
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 9:43pm

Welcome to the board, wildwyoone.

Missy has given you some great ideas.

Going along on your note idea, the bathroom mirror is also a great place to put a note. If you're not living together, putting it there just before you leave is a nice touch. You could even leave one on the bed pillow.

It can be difficult to get started talking, but once you do, it really does get easier. Just start with small steps.







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