New Girlfriend, hard time getting off

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-18-2007
New Girlfriend, hard time getting off
1
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 7:19pm
Ok, so this is really going to seem weird I think. I just got out of a really long relationship and I've started dating someone else. She's awesome, and the sex is really good, but for some reason I'm having a hard time ejaculating, really frustrating! It's so weird, and she's pretty much up for whatever, I feel like my penis misses my ex or got used to her or something. I've never had this problem before, so I'm a bit confussed about what to do. Any suggestions? It's not an all the time thing, just like 20-30% of the time, but I feel like that is a lot for a guy!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 9:07pm

Welcome to the board oszohni. Each partner feels different sexually, and you are used to how your partner felt in your LTR. Also, you may have some baggage from that relationship that is interfering with you being able to relax and enjoy your new relationship.

I suspect that your problem will lessen as your new relationship continues to develop more. You will be able to retrain yourself, it will just take a little time.



Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting