new guy.questions on his thoughts.help.

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Registered: 12-05-2004
new guy.questions on his thoughts.help.
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Sun, 12-05-2004 - 10:49pm

theres a guy i work with who i've somewhat known since i was younger. we have known of each other but, not really known each other if you are picking up what im layin down. he is older and as i found out last night, very much more experienced than i.

i have been with one guy, who i was in a long term relationship with. it took me a long while to realize that i was even physically attracted to him enough to sleep with him. i am so incredibly physically attracted to the guy from my work already. i know him physically way more than i know him mentally. this is the problem. i want to sleep with him and i hardly know him. i know him enough to feel safe but .. not enough. he realized and it was easy to tell that i was nervous and very self conscious last night. do you think this is a complete turn off to him? im not looking for a commitment with him or anyone for that matter due to certain circumstances of us both going back to school in a couple of weeks, but i do want something because of how physically attracted i am to him.

the main question im asking is.. do you think im ready to be with him? do you think that he is completely turned off by my nonexperience and .. if i were to sleep with him.. im not sure if i would be "good". i know thats supposed to be a taboo, but honestly ive been with one guy and i knew how to please him.. but this guy is new and interesting and i want to please him oh so much. i am writing an essay on this. help meeeeeeee.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 12-05-2004 - 10:56pm
Every man is different and each guys likes and dislikes differ. You are getting worried over nothing. You will do fine, assuming that he is willing to accommodate your wants. Good luck.
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Mon, 12-06-2004 - 7:35am

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