new here & could he be using something?
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| Thu, 02-01-2007 - 4:11pm |
i have been with my older b-friend for a little over a yr, (he is 60 & i 36) (i know huge age diff, but we are wonderful together & the age thing doesn't seem to matter). the sex just keeps getting better not to brag but could he be using some help??? not complaining, just wondering. at 1st in our relationship i had to work to get him hard & for him to remain hard. but now he seems to be twice as hard for longer & i don't have to work to get him that way. alot of the time he just gets hard masterbating me or just seeing me any time (clothed or nude). older men need more stimulation to get things moving along, because i did some research on the subject when we were 1st together to see what i could do to help him out & i didn't make an issue out of it or put pressure on him to perform.
could he be taking something to help him out? i think that he should be honest with me & say something eventhough i love the difference. should i bring it up or just let it go & enjoy the ride?

You should just enjoy the ride. If he is using something, that's his business unless he wants to share it with you....Don't worry about it.
And whatever "research" you did.....is a "generalization"....and not all men of 60, or 70 or even 80 need help....many are just fine on their own.
If he is using something and hasn't shared that with you, I wouldn't ask. A lot of guys are embarrassed when they need a little help from the doctor, and he may well be with such an age difference between the two of you. If he is using something, it's because he really wants to please you, and that should be your only focus.