new to it all

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Registered: 06-26-2004
new to it all
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Tue, 06-29-2004 - 2:30pm
hi i'm new to the whole oral sex thing and i was just wondering if maybe someone could give me some different techniques to help please my man something to really make him scream for me i would appreciate it :) thanks
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 2:41pm
Well, I've said this many times. Pretend like your sucking and licking on a tootsie pop! And - check out the taboo board for more tips!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 2:54pm
Basically, oral sex is mimicking intercourse, so you really don't have to do A LOT to get a good reaction from your partner, other than be willing and enthusiastic.

Some men, my DH included, enjoy massage of the perineum, the area between the scrotum and rectum, during oral stimulation. I use a fairly firm pressure with my thumb which seems to harden his erection even more and stimulate his prostate making his orgasms very powerful.

I like to use this technique, particularly when he's taking longer than normal to orgasm and I'm getting tired. Works every time.

Try different things though....reach up and play with his nipples, caress his scrotum, use a lubed finger to stimulate his rectum. Experiment and see what he likes.