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| Thu, 11-10-2005 - 3:52pm |
My name is Jenn. I am 22 and have a question. I do not get very wet anymore and have only been with my man for 3 months. I dont really want to start useing lub cause once you start thats it. Are we maybe rushin? And should do more foreplay? Help!
Jenn
Jenn

I'm not sure what you mean by once you start using lube that's it.
Lack of lube can be caused by nervousness, stress in or about the relationship and things in your job and life, a change in medication lately, starting the pill can sometimes cause it.
If you are not having enough foreplay that is a big factor - if you don't have enough foreplay or time fooling around before penetration your body simply hasn't had enough time to get warmed up and lubricating. If I were you, I'd try to spend more and longer time on the foreplay. Don't rush for intercourse.
As for using lube? Your body doesn't react to the lube and stop producing it's own. It'll do what it always does, the lube is just *extra* to help out at times when your body doesn't produce enough of your own.